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KY📍I am your daily proof that you can THRIVE in a 9-5 & create a 5-9 💻📲
Here to help ambitious women elevate every area of life
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So sad I’m missing today’s game 🥹, but I’ So sad I’m missing today’s game 🥹, but I’m still on a high from yesterdays win!! @talan_stevenss had an amazing double play that came in clutch early on in the game! Everyone went crazy!!! 

Let’s bring home the WIN MoCo, and I’ll see ya’ll  at state! 😉❤️⚾️💙
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#montgomerycounty #baseball #baseballislife #auntie #nephew
There’s something insanely special and strong ab There’s something insanely special and strong about the bond between an aunt and her nephew that no amount of time or distance can touch — it’s woven into the quiet moments, the fun, the experiences, the memories, and the pride that swells so big it’s hard to put into words. 🎓

Talan, watching you walk across that stage last night was one of those moments I’ll carry with me forever. We are SO incredibly proud of the person you’ve become — your heart, your hustle, and everything in between.

The world doesn’t know what’s coming for it yet, but we sure do. Go show them, T-Dog. We can’t wait for this next chapter in pure about to write at UofL. This is just the beginning. 

Congratulations, Talan. We love you endlessly. ❤️
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Auntie Can
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#ProudAunt #ClassOf2026 #GraduationDay #MoCoGraduates #futurecardinal
Because apparently these are things nobody warns y Because apparently these are things nobody warns your about, so let me officially put your all on notice:

1️⃣ Sending an email or chat WITHOUT a greeting. Not even a Hello 👋 Hi 👋 How are you? Just straight into the thought, question or request. The audacity. The disrespect. The horror. So rude!

2️⃣ My 2+ hour daily commute. Every day. I have done the math and I will not be sharing the results.

3️⃣ Meeting invites for 12pm and 4:30pm. You had the whole calendar. The WHOLE calendar. Even ANOTHER day to choose from. And you chose lunch and the last 30 minutes ???

4️⃣ Meetings with no agenda. We are gathered here today for absolutely no reason and no one knows how long this will take. Amen.

5️⃣ Talking and someone interrupting my thought. Mid. Sentence. Every. Time. I have since stopped finishing thoughts in meetings as an act of self preservation.

If you felt personally attacked by any of these — same. We are the same person and I see you.

Drop the number that haunts you most in the comments 👇😂

And if that 2 hour commute has you thinking there has GOT to be a better way — you’re right. There is. DM me the word COMMUTE and let’s have a real conversation about what building something from your phone actually looks like. Because that 2 hours in the car? That’s prime building time. 📲💰
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#CorporateHorror #CorporateGirlie #OfficeLife #CorporateHumor 9to5Life
I lied…well, I didn’t….other people did. You I lied…well, I didn’t….other people did. You know, the ones that love to bash “hustle culture.” I personally don’t hate the hustle.

I hate the thought of struggling.
I hate the thought of paycheck to paycheck.
I hate feeling stuck knowing I’m capable of more.

So yes… I’ll gladly work for the freedom, peace, flexibility, and life I want.

And if I can build that while helping other women create additional income from their phone too? Even better. 👏🏽✨

The truth is… this version of me didn’t happen by accident. It happened when I stopped shrinking, stopped waiting, and finally decided to GO ALL IN on myself.

If you’ve been watching me and wondering if you could do this too… this is your sign that you absolutely can.

But hear me clearly: This opportunity is NOT for lazy people. It’s for the women ready to execute, stay coachable, and actually build something meaningful.

👇🏾Comment “READY” or send me a DM if you’re serious about creating another income stream before this year is over.
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#WomenWhoHustle
#MultipleStreamsOfIncome
#CorporateBaddie
#EntrepreneurMindset
#FreedomLifestyle
Nobody in HR is going to tell you this. So I will. Nobody in HR is going to tell you this. So I will. Here are 5 things I actually do to keep my corporate sanity.⬇️

1️⃣ — I do not respond to emails after 5pm. After 5pm if it is a true emergency, pick up the phone and call me. Email is not an urgent form of communication. And maintaining that boundary forces people to respect your time whether they want to or not.

2️⃣ — I do not immediately respond to every email the moment it hits my inbox. A great leader taught me years ago that responding instantly every time your boss emails you is actually a signal that you are not busy and have too much capacity. Let it breathe. You are a professional, not a vending machine.

3️⃣ — I use every single last hour of my PTO. Every. Single. One. This should not even need an explanation but here we are. That time belongs to you. Use it.

4️⃣ — I pick my battles. Not every fight in that building is mine to join. Not every office drama is my storyline. Not every colleague’s war is my war. Stay in your lane, protect your energy, and let other people fight battles that were never yours to begin with.

5️⃣ — I take a full lunch break every single day. I leave my desk. I eat. I breathe. I exist outside of a Zoom call for thirty uninterrupted minutes. Revolutionary, I know.

You can love your job and the people there, but your job is not your whole life. Protect yourself accordingly. 🫶🏽
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#CorporateSanity #CorporateGirlie #WorkLifeBalance #OfficeLife #WomenInCorporate
I stopped comparing my chapter 1 to someone else’s chapter 10 a long time ago. I stopped looking sideways at what other people were building and got laser focused on what I was building. And you know what happened?

Everything started growing.

The health. The income. The team. The confidence. The peace. That’s what happens when you stop worrying about everyone else’s lawn and start watering your own.

If you’ve been watching other people build something and thinking — I want that — stop watching and start walking. Because the only difference between you and the person you’ve been admiring is that they started.

I’m building a health and wellness business full of focused, driven, unbothered people who are done comparing and ready to create. People who show up for themselves, follow a proven system, and build something that pays them weekly.

If that’s you — drop 🌱 in the comments or DM me the word GRASS and let’s talk about what building your own thing actually looks like.

Eyes forward. Grass green. Let’s go. 💚
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#MyGrassIsGreen #EyesForward #UnbotheredAndBuilding #WomenInBusiness #SheBuildsDifferent
Try somebody else today satan….I’m not in the Try somebody else today satan….I’m not in the mood! 

But to everyone else, HAPPY TUESDAY!!!! 🫶🏽🎉
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#corporate #corporatecomedy #relatable #corporatebaddie #tuesdaytips
MoCo gets the win!! ⚾️ Advancing to Semi’s t MoCo gets the win!! ⚾️ Advancing to Semi’s tomorrow night!!! 

Let’s go Tribe!! ❤️🤍💙
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#auntielife #baseball #montgomerycounty #memorialdayweekend🇺🇸
the one I can always count on to make dancing vide the one I can always count on to make dancing videos with me! 😂 #JoJosWorld #trending #dancechallenge #nephew #auntielife
Screaming HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY to my girl Laken! 🎉🎉🎉🎉

Hope you have the absolute best day ever, and we will celebrate soon!!! Love you!! 😘🫶🏽 @hmcacrylicandwood
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KY📍I am your daily proof that you can THRIVE in a 9-5 & create a 5-9 💻📲
Here to help ambitious women elevate every area of life
⬇️ more in link below

So sad I’m missing today’s game 🥹, but I’ So sad I’m missing today’s game 🥹, but I’m still on a high from yesterdays win!! @talan_stevenss had an amazing double play that came in clutch early on in the game! Everyone went crazy!!! 

Let’s bring home the WIN MoCo, and I’ll see ya’ll  at state! 😉❤️⚾️💙
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#montgomerycounty #baseball #baseballislife #auntie #nephew
There’s something insanely special and strong ab There’s something insanely special and strong about the bond between an aunt and her nephew that no amount of time or distance can touch — it’s woven into the quiet moments, the fun, the experiences, the memories, and the pride that swells so big it’s hard to put into words. 🎓

Talan, watching you walk across that stage last night was one of those moments I’ll carry with me forever. We are SO incredibly proud of the person you’ve become — your heart, your hustle, and everything in between.

The world doesn’t know what’s coming for it yet, but we sure do. Go show them, T-Dog. We can’t wait for this next chapter in pure about to write at UofL. This is just the beginning. 

Congratulations, Talan. We love you endlessly. ❤️
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Auntie Can
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#ProudAunt #ClassOf2026 #GraduationDay #MoCoGraduates #futurecardinal
Because apparently these are things nobody warns y Because apparently these are things nobody warns your about, so let me officially put your all on notice:

1️⃣ Sending an email or chat WITHOUT a greeting. Not even a Hello 👋 Hi 👋 How are you? Just straight into the thought, question or request. The audacity. The disrespect. The horror. So rude!

2️⃣ My 2+ hour daily commute. Every day. I have done the math and I will not be sharing the results.

3️⃣ Meeting invites for 12pm and 4:30pm. You had the whole calendar. The WHOLE calendar. Even ANOTHER day to choose from. And you chose lunch and the last 30 minutes ???

4️⃣ Meetings with no agenda. We are gathered here today for absolutely no reason and no one knows how long this will take. Amen.

5️⃣ Talking and someone interrupting my thought. Mid. Sentence. Every. Time. I have since stopped finishing thoughts in meetings as an act of self preservation.

If you felt personally attacked by any of these — same. We are the same person and I see you.

Drop the number that haunts you most in the comments 👇😂

And if that 2 hour commute has you thinking there has GOT to be a better way — you’re right. There is. DM me the word COMMUTE and let’s have a real conversation about what building something from your phone actually looks like. Because that 2 hours in the car? That’s prime building time. 📲💰
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.
.
.
.

#CorporateHorror #CorporateGirlie #OfficeLife #CorporateHumor 9to5Life
I lied…well, I didn’t….other people did. You I lied…well, I didn’t….other people did. You know, the ones that love to bash “hustle culture.” I personally don’t hate the hustle.

I hate the thought of struggling.
I hate the thought of paycheck to paycheck.
I hate feeling stuck knowing I’m capable of more.

So yes… I’ll gladly work for the freedom, peace, flexibility, and life I want.

And if I can build that while helping other women create additional income from their phone too? Even better. 👏🏽✨

The truth is… this version of me didn’t happen by accident. It happened when I stopped shrinking, stopped waiting, and finally decided to GO ALL IN on myself.

If you’ve been watching me and wondering if you could do this too… this is your sign that you absolutely can.

But hear me clearly: This opportunity is NOT for lazy people. It’s for the women ready to execute, stay coachable, and actually build something meaningful.

👇🏾Comment “READY” or send me a DM if you’re serious about creating another income stream before this year is over.
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.
.
.
.
#WomenWhoHustle
#MultipleStreamsOfIncome
#CorporateBaddie
#EntrepreneurMindset
#FreedomLifestyle
Nobody in HR is going to tell you this. So I will. Nobody in HR is going to tell you this. So I will. Here are 5 things I actually do to keep my corporate sanity.⬇️

1️⃣ — I do not respond to emails after 5pm. After 5pm if it is a true emergency, pick up the phone and call me. Email is not an urgent form of communication. And maintaining that boundary forces people to respect your time whether they want to or not.

2️⃣ — I do not immediately respond to every email the moment it hits my inbox. A great leader taught me years ago that responding instantly every time your boss emails you is actually a signal that you are not busy and have too much capacity. Let it breathe. You are a professional, not a vending machine.

3️⃣ — I use every single last hour of my PTO. Every. Single. One. This should not even need an explanation but here we are. That time belongs to you. Use it.

4️⃣ — I pick my battles. Not every fight in that building is mine to join. Not every office drama is my storyline. Not every colleague’s war is my war. Stay in your lane, protect your energy, and let other people fight battles that were never yours to begin with.

5️⃣ — I take a full lunch break every single day. I leave my desk. I eat. I breathe. I exist outside of a Zoom call for thirty uninterrupted minutes. Revolutionary, I know.

You can love your job and the people there, but your job is not your whole life. Protect yourself accordingly. 🫶🏽
.
.
.
.
#CorporateSanity #CorporateGirlie #WorkLifeBalance #OfficeLife #WomenInCorporate
I stopped comparing my chapter 1 to someone else’s chapter 10 a long time ago. I stopped looking sideways at what other people were building and got laser focused on what I was building. And you know what happened?

Everything started growing.

The health. The income. The team. The confidence. The peace. That’s what happens when you stop worrying about everyone else’s lawn and start watering your own.

If you’ve been watching other people build something and thinking — I want that — stop watching and start walking. Because the only difference between you and the person you’ve been admiring is that they started.

I’m building a health and wellness business full of focused, driven, unbothered people who are done comparing and ready to create. People who show up for themselves, follow a proven system, and build something that pays them weekly.

If that’s you — drop 🌱 in the comments or DM me the word GRASS and let’s talk about what building your own thing actually looks like.

Eyes forward. Grass green. Let’s go. 💚
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.
.
.
.
#MyGrassIsGreen #EyesForward #UnbotheredAndBuilding #WomenInBusiness #SheBuildsDifferent
Try somebody else today satan….I’m not in the Try somebody else today satan….I’m not in the mood! 

But to everyone else, HAPPY TUESDAY!!!! 🫶🏽🎉
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.
#corporate #corporatecomedy #relatable #corporatebaddie #tuesdaytips
MoCo gets the win!! ⚾️ Advancing to Semi’s t MoCo gets the win!! ⚾️ Advancing to Semi’s tomorrow night!!! 

Let’s go Tribe!! ❤️🤍💙
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.
#auntielife #baseball #montgomerycounty #memorialdayweekend🇺🇸
the one I can always count on to make dancing vide the one I can always count on to make dancing videos with me! 😂 #JoJosWorld #trending #dancechallenge #nephew #auntielife
Screaming HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY to my girl Laken! 🎉🎉🎉🎉

Hope you have the absolute best day ever, and we will celebrate soon!!! Love you!! 😘🫶🏽 @hmcacrylicandwood
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KY📍I am your daily proof that you can THRIVE in a 9-5 & create a 5-9 💻📲
Here to help ambitious women elevate every area of life
⬇️ more in link below

So sad I’m missing today’s game 🥹, but I’ So sad I’m missing today’s game 🥹, but I’m still on a high from yesterdays win!! @talan_stevenss had an amazing double play that came in clutch early on in the game! Everyone went crazy!!! 

Let’s bring home the WIN MoCo, and I’ll see ya’ll  at state! 😉❤️⚾️💙
.
.
.
.
#montgomerycounty #baseball #baseballislife #auntie #nephew
There’s something insanely special and strong ab There’s something insanely special and strong about the bond between an aunt and her nephew that no amount of time or distance can touch — it’s woven into the quiet moments, the fun, the experiences, the memories, and the pride that swells so big it’s hard to put into words. 🎓

Talan, watching you walk across that stage last night was one of those moments I’ll carry with me forever. We are SO incredibly proud of the person you’ve become — your heart, your hustle, and everything in between.

The world doesn’t know what’s coming for it yet, but we sure do. Go show them, T-Dog. We can’t wait for this next chapter in pure about to write at UofL. This is just the beginning. 

Congratulations, Talan. We love you endlessly. ❤️
-
Auntie Can
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#ProudAunt #ClassOf2026 #GraduationDay #MoCoGraduates #futurecardinal
Because apparently these are things nobody warns y Because apparently these are things nobody warns your about, so let me officially put your all on notice:

1️⃣ Sending an email or chat WITHOUT a greeting. Not even a Hello 👋 Hi 👋 How are you? Just straight into the thought, question or request. The audacity. The disrespect. The horror. So rude!

2️⃣ My 2+ hour daily commute. Every day. I have done the math and I will not be sharing the results.

3️⃣ Meeting invites for 12pm and 4:30pm. You had the whole calendar. The WHOLE calendar. Even ANOTHER day to choose from. And you chose lunch and the last 30 minutes ???

4️⃣ Meetings with no agenda. We are gathered here today for absolutely no reason and no one knows how long this will take. Amen.

5️⃣ Talking and someone interrupting my thought. Mid. Sentence. Every. Time. I have since stopped finishing thoughts in meetings as an act of self preservation.

If you felt personally attacked by any of these — same. We are the same person and I see you.

Drop the number that haunts you most in the comments 👇😂

And if that 2 hour commute has you thinking there has GOT to be a better way — you’re right. There is. DM me the word COMMUTE and let’s have a real conversation about what building something from your phone actually looks like. Because that 2 hours in the car? That’s prime building time. 📲💰
.
.
.
.
.

#CorporateHorror #CorporateGirlie #OfficeLife #CorporateHumor 9to5Life
I lied…well, I didn’t….other people did. You I lied…well, I didn’t….other people did. You know, the ones that love to bash “hustle culture.” I personally don’t hate the hustle.

I hate the thought of struggling.
I hate the thought of paycheck to paycheck.
I hate feeling stuck knowing I’m capable of more.

So yes… I’ll gladly work for the freedom, peace, flexibility, and life I want.

And if I can build that while helping other women create additional income from their phone too? Even better. 👏🏽✨

The truth is… this version of me didn’t happen by accident. It happened when I stopped shrinking, stopped waiting, and finally decided to GO ALL IN on myself.

If you’ve been watching me and wondering if you could do this too… this is your sign that you absolutely can.

But hear me clearly: This opportunity is NOT for lazy people. It’s for the women ready to execute, stay coachable, and actually build something meaningful.

👇🏾Comment “READY” or send me a DM if you’re serious about creating another income stream before this year is over.
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.
.
.
.
#WomenWhoHustle
#MultipleStreamsOfIncome
#CorporateBaddie
#EntrepreneurMindset
#FreedomLifestyle
Nobody in HR is going to tell you this. So I will. Nobody in HR is going to tell you this. So I will. Here are 5 things I actually do to keep my corporate sanity.⬇️

1️⃣ — I do not respond to emails after 5pm. After 5pm if it is a true emergency, pick up the phone and call me. Email is not an urgent form of communication. And maintaining that boundary forces people to respect your time whether they want to or not.

2️⃣ — I do not immediately respond to every email the moment it hits my inbox. A great leader taught me years ago that responding instantly every time your boss emails you is actually a signal that you are not busy and have too much capacity. Let it breathe. You are a professional, not a vending machine.

3️⃣ — I use every single last hour of my PTO. Every. Single. One. This should not even need an explanation but here we are. That time belongs to you. Use it.

4️⃣ — I pick my battles. Not every fight in that building is mine to join. Not every office drama is my storyline. Not every colleague’s war is my war. Stay in your lane, protect your energy, and let other people fight battles that were never yours to begin with.

5️⃣ — I take a full lunch break every single day. I leave my desk. I eat. I breathe. I exist outside of a Zoom call for thirty uninterrupted minutes. Revolutionary, I know.

You can love your job and the people there, but your job is not your whole life. Protect yourself accordingly. 🫶🏽
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.
.
#CorporateSanity #CorporateGirlie #WorkLifeBalance #OfficeLife #WomenInCorporate
I stopped comparing my chapter 1 to someone else’s chapter 10 a long time ago. I stopped looking sideways at what other people were building and got laser focused on what I was building. And you know what happened?

Everything started growing.

The health. The income. The team. The confidence. The peace. That’s what happens when you stop worrying about everyone else’s lawn and start watering your own.

If you’ve been watching other people build something and thinking — I want that — stop watching and start walking. Because the only difference between you and the person you’ve been admiring is that they started.

I’m building a health and wellness business full of focused, driven, unbothered people who are done comparing and ready to create. People who show up for themselves, follow a proven system, and build something that pays them weekly.

If that’s you — drop 🌱 in the comments or DM me the word GRASS and let’s talk about what building your own thing actually looks like.

Eyes forward. Grass green. Let’s go. 💚
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.
.
#MyGrassIsGreen #EyesForward #UnbotheredAndBuilding #WomenInBusiness #SheBuildsDifferent
Try somebody else today satan….I’m not in the Try somebody else today satan….I’m not in the mood! 

But to everyone else, HAPPY TUESDAY!!!! 🫶🏽🎉
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#corporate #corporatecomedy #relatable #corporatebaddie #tuesdaytips
MoCo gets the win!! ⚾️ Advancing to Semi’s t MoCo gets the win!! ⚾️ Advancing to Semi’s tomorrow night!!! 

Let’s go Tribe!! ❤️🤍💙
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#auntielife #baseball #montgomerycounty #memorialdayweekend🇺🇸
the one I can always count on to make dancing vide the one I can always count on to make dancing videos with me! 😂 #JoJosWorld #trending #dancechallenge #nephew #auntielife
Screaming HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY to my girl Laken! 🎉🎉🎉🎉

Hope you have the absolute best day ever, and we will celebrate soon!!! Love you!! 😘🫶🏽 @hmcacrylicandwood
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