thebigbluedebutante

📍Louisville, KY
Corporate Baddie | Entrepreneur
Helping ambitious professionals take control of their health, build wealth & share the journey 👇🏾

My favorite notifications lately? THESE RIGHT HERE My favorite notifications lately? THESE RIGHT HERE. 😭👏🏽🖤

Listen, I can talk about my own wellness journey ALL DAY LONG, but when my phone starts lighting up with messages from customers sharing their experiences? THAT’S A WHOLE DIFFERENT KIND OF EXCITEMENT! 🔥

The nervous first-timers realizing the process wasn’t nearly as intimidating as they expected.

The customers celebrating their weight-loss milestones.

The messages about feeling better, having more energy, and noticing changes they’re genuinely excited about.

And yes…apparently some of y’all are going to need a new wardrobe. 😂🛍️

THIS is why I love what I do.

Not just sharing products, but being someone my customers can ask questions, lean on for accountability, and celebrate their wins with.

Because behind every one of these messages is a REAL person with REAL goals. And getting to cheer them on? That’s the good stuff.

Curious about my supplement and peptide journey or what my customers are sharing? 💌 Comment “READY” or send me a DM. I’m happy to share my experience, answer questions about the process, and help you identify what products would be best for YOU! 🫶🏾
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#PeptideJourney #GLP1Journey #WomenOver40Wellness #WeightLossJourney #MidlifeWellness
and I hate to burst your bubble, but my phone is N and I hate to burst your bubble, but my phone is NEVER dead….and I always carry a portable charger! 👊🏾
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#auntielife #auntielifeisthebestlife #foe #nephew #idontplayaboutmine
Justin: “Babe, you look really small today..” Me: Justin: “Babe, you look really small today..”

Me: “really? you think? 👀 Do I look ok?”

Justin: “You’ve always looked great, but you look really good! I’m proud of you!”

Me: “☺️😚 oh stooooop…..but no keep going!” ha!

LISTEN! If I don’t stick to my upgraded wellness routine for any other reason, I’m going to stick to it for my damn self-esteem and the renewed sense of confidence it has given me! 

Unless you’ve personally experienced it, you just won’t understand. But being a woman and turning 40 is NOT, I repeat, is NOT for the weak! Your body changes in ways you never even imagined, and with that comes being discouraged and extremely hard on yourself when the reflection in the mirror isn’t what you had been use to for the prior 39 years! 

So today, I’m celebrating the fact that I got out of my own way and made the decision to get back to ME!  Heck, ya’ll just might see me come out of retirement and sign up to run another marathon! 😂🎉 Who’s joining me?!? Any takers👀👀

Happy Monday Friends! Don’t forget to go be great today! 💪🏽
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#mondaymotivaton #weightlossjourney #womenover40 #peptidejourney
HOW ABOUT THEM CAAAAAATS!!! 💙😻 #BBN STAND UP!! 👏🏽 HOW ABOUT THEM CAAAAAATS!!! 💙😻

#BBN STAND UP!! 👏🏽
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#kentuckyfootball #secfootball #weareuk #kentuckywildcats
Don’t be like me and take a whole year to finally Don’t be like me and take a whole year to finally decide what’s best for you! Just do it! Lock in for 3 months and prepare to be amazing at how your body transforms from the inside out! 

I can share this with you because I lived it! Even though I regret waiting so long to start, I’m also just extremely thankful I FINALLY did! 

💙 16.8lbs down
💙 Mood improved
💙 Food noise gone - appetite controlled
💙 Better sleep
💙 Clean energy all day long
💙 Hair, Skin, Nails flourishing
💙 Down a pant, shirt and dress size
💙 Literally THRIVING 👏🏽

If you’re navigating weight changes, perimenopause, or just trying to feel like yourself again, I SEE YOU. ❤️

👇🏽 Comment “READY” or DM me if you’re curious about my personal journey, what I changed, and the questions I asked before getting started.

And FOLLOW along, because baby…we’re just getting started. 
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#GLP1Journey #WomenOver40Wellness #PerimenopauseJourney #WeightLossJourney LVRX
Every time someone asks me about my peptide journe Every time someone asks me about my peptide journey and says, “But I’m still on the fence…” 👀

My response? BABY, I LIVED ON THAT FENCE FOR ALMOST A YEAR! 😂👏🏽

I questioned everything. Overthought everything. And talked myself out of even exploring my options more times than I can count.

But here’s what I’ve learned and what I now tell everyone to else……Give yourself 3 MONTHS.

Not just 3 months on peptides. Three months of getting serious about YOU. LOCK IN. 🔒 Your nutrition. Your water. Your movement. Your consistency. And give yourself a real opportunity to see what changes.

Because 3 months are going to pass whether you do something differently or not. 👏🏽

I’m almost 17 pounds down, feeling more like myself again, and STILL working toward my goals! 🖤

And trust me…I’m glad I finally stopped letting fear make my decisions.

🔥 Curious about my peptide journey and what I’ve changed? Comment “READY” or DM me “READY” and I’ll share my experience and current wellness routine!

FOLLOW for more real-life wellness, perimenopause, and weight-loss journey updates from a woman navigating her 40s right along with you!

{My results are personal, not guaranteed. Peptide treatments aren’t appropriate for everyone and should be discussed with a qualified healthcare professional.}
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#GLP1Journey #PeptideJourney #PerimenopauseWeightLoss #WomenOver40Wellness #WeightLossJourney
Underestimate me….PLEASE!!! I love it when that ha Underestimate me….PLEASE!!! I love it when that happens! 👊🏾
Plot twist: the girl who said “ABSOLUTELY NOT” for Plot twist: the girl who said “ABSOLUTELY NOT” for almost a year…finally tried it. 😂🌶️

And if you know me, you know I researched, questioned, overthought and probably annoyed everybody with 947 questions first. 😂

But eventually I realized something: Being skeptical is fine. Staying uninformed because you’re skeptical is different.

So, after talking with my provider, I decided to try a medically supervised microdose as one part of a bigger wellness routine—nutrition, movement, hydration, supplementation and consistency included.

And 11 weeks later? 16 lbs down and, beyond the scale, I’m feeling more like myself again. 🙌🏾

Do I wish I had started sooner? Girl…YES.
But apparently I needed all 947 questions answered first.😂😂

If you’ve been watching from the sidelines because you have questions too, ASK THEM.

🌶️ Comment “PEPPER” and I’ll share more about my experience and what I changed in my overall wellness routine.

And FOLLOW if you’re navigating wellness, weight changes and all that comes with perimenopause after 40 right along with me. 🖤

(My experience is personal; results vary.)
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#GLP1Journey #WomenOver40Wellness #PerimenopauseWeightLoss #WeightLossJourney #MidlifeWellness
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Apparently I had my 40s ALL wrong. 😂👏🏽 I@really th Apparently I had my 40s ALL wrong. 😂👏🏽 I@really thought this was just…it.

The weight gain.
The inflammation.
The clothes fitting too tight.
The energy changes.
And looking in the mirror thinking, “Well damn…is this what we’re doing now?” 🥴😂

Then I decided I wasn’t spending the rest of my 40s simply accepting a version of myself I didn’t feel good in.

So I changed some things.
Got serious about my wellness.
Stayed consistent.
And stopped talking myself out of trying something different.

16 pounds later just over the last 11 weeks……And I’m not even finished.

This chapter isn’t about trying to look 25 again. It’s about becoming the healthiest, strongest, most confident version of ME at THIS age. And apparently……what I’m doing is working!! 

If you’re in your 40s thinking, “I just want to feel like myself again,” I got you!

👇🏽 Comment “READY” and I’ll share what I changed and what my current wellness routine looks like.

And FOLLOW because this little midlife plot twist is just getting started. 😂🖤
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Health & Wellness · June 13, 2023

Fit by 40!

Hey There Friends! Happy Friday! Can you believe we are already half way through June, and half way through the year?!? Where is the time going.  When you’re younger you want the time to pass by quickly so you can get a little older. But then you get older and you want time to slow down.  I’m definitely at the age where I want it to SLOW DOWN!

Embarking on a Personal Journey

So with the time passing quickly, so are the birthdays year after year. Back in April, I celebrated my 39th Birthday!  Even though I feel great, most of the time around 21-22 (except after a night of dancing…..these knees don’t hold up and bounce back like they use to haha), even though I still feel young for the most part, the reality is that in 10 more months, I will be 40!! Its hard to image and even harder to type.

Now, don’t get me wrong. 40 is NOT old. I’ve never thought of someone who was 40 to be “old!” Its just that I truly cannot wrap my head around how I got here so fast.  I don’t feel 40, and I definitely don’t feel like I look it! Haha pat on the back for good genes and a consistent skincare routine for the last 20 years! Lol

Fit by 40

Just like any other woman turning 40 would do, I am already planning to most epic 40th birthday bash, and one thing that I refuse to be at 40 is unhealthy and not in the best shape of my life. It doesn’t matter what numerical size you are, or what the number on the scale says, just because you are perceived as “normal size or small” doesn’t always mean you are healthy and in shape.

Fortunately for me, I am one who probably obsesses with my internal health more than others, and I stay on top of all of my numbers and as far as internal medicine is concerned, my doctors say I am in great health.  All of my numbers and vitals are in range of where they should be, I’m not on any medications, and I’m feeling great.  But sometimes, the numbers aren’t enough personally.  I know my numbers could always be better, and physically, things could always be better. I want to be able to do things as freely as possible, and I know that requires me taking my health journey more seriously and truly getting in the best shape of my life.  So the next 10 months I am dedicating to a true physical transformation.

Trust the Process

I am two weeks into this new journey and I’m feeling amazing, and can already notice a few slight changes.  I’ve got my supplements in check, a structured food plan, a consistent and mapped out workout plan, and more importantly, a new sleep schedule. All of these things working together will set me up for success in reaching my ultimate goals. Here’s a quick overview of what I’m doing:

Supplements:

  • Morning: prebiotic, probiotic, post-biotic, COQ10, Fat-Burning Collagen and metabolism boosting capsules
  • Lunch:  Multi-Vitamin pack and Greens drink
  • Evening: Digestive Enzymes and Sleep capsules (when needed)

All of my supplements are linked HERE. If you decide you want to try anything, simply delete what you don’t want and then checkout (discount for brand new customers will apply automatically at checkout)Food:

Intermittent fasting is something that has worked for me in the past, and has worked for so many of my friends. But at this point in my life, and how my schedule is setup with work and other commitments, Intermittent fasting is no longer the best option for me personally. Completing a workout, full out the way I want to and how I should is fairly difficult for me to do on a completely empty stomach, since my workouts 90% of the time are done in the mornings. So I just plan my meals at times that make the most sense for me and my schedule, with the goal to be done eating meals and any snacks by 8pm most days.

I am starting out for the first 6 weeks counting calories. I’m currently shooting for 1,420 calories a day.  After 6 weeks, I will switch over to counting Macros, focusing on 107g C, 178g P, 32g F.

Food has never really been a struggle for me as far as eating unhealthy things. It’s usually the timing of my eating that has been my downfall, thus the reason no meals or snacks after 8pm now!

If you’re wanting to eat better, but don’t know where to start. And you’re looking for healthy food options that are high in protein, you need help with meal planning, healthy carbs, healthy condiment options, AND portion sizes; be sure to check out my High Protein Meal Planning Bundle Pack! You can learn more HERE! This is the exact plan I am following, and that has helped me to feel better, start toning, sleeping better, and have lost a little over 5lbs in the last week and a half!

Fitness: The goal is to do 45-60min workouts 5 days a week, HITT focused on heavy lifting, with (2) rest days.  But I’m also walking/running 20-30min 7 days a week (also making sure I get in a minimum of 10,000 steps each day).  My husband and I are planning on running a mini….maybe a full marathon in December, so the training is on!

To take the fitness journey to optimal levels, we are planning on doing cold plunges and infrared sessions.  The goal is to complete a workout, do 15-20 min in the infrared sauna at 140-150 degrees, then immediately go and do the cold plunge for 2-3min.  The results from this are really mind blowing:

  • improved circulation
  • increased energy
  • reduced muscle and joint soreness
  • helps to unclog pores
  • improves your immune support
  • helps with weightloss
  • improves sleep
  • and helps to overall relax your body!

The cold plunge is actually being delivered today, and the infrared sauna is being installed the following week!  (shhhhhh! Its a bday surprise for my hubby!!! and don’t worry, he unfortunately doesn’t read my blog haha!)

Short Term Sacrifices, for Longterm Payoff

Even though my boy Dave Ramsey said it first, the saying is true. Sometimes you have to sacrifice for just a bit in order to truly reap the payoff that you really desire.  So these next few months are going to be challenge for sure, but the reward is going to be amazing.  If anyone decides they want to join me on this journey, feel free to message me. I will guide you as best I can and share in detail exactly what I am doing to get results and feel amazing!

I hope you all have an amazing weekend, and I can’t wait to continue sharing this amazing journey with each of you!

Oh yeah, if you want to see my daily workouts, be sure sure to head over Instagram and give me a follow. I’m sharing my daily workouts and food over there! :-). IG: @thebigbluedebutante

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My favorite notifications lately? THESE RIGHT HERE My favorite notifications lately? THESE RIGHT HERE. 😭👏🏽🖤

Listen, I can talk about my own wellness journey ALL DAY LONG, but when my phone starts lighting up with messages from customers sharing their experiences? THAT’S A WHOLE DIFFERENT KIND OF EXCITEMENT! 🔥

The nervous first-timers realizing the process wasn’t nearly as intimidating as they expected.

The customers celebrating their weight-loss milestones.

The messages about feeling better, having more energy, and noticing changes they’re genuinely excited about.

And yes…apparently some of y’all are going to need a new wardrobe. 😂🛍️

THIS is why I love what I do.

Not just sharing products, but being someone my customers can ask questions, lean on for accountability, and celebrate their wins with.

Because behind every one of these messages is a REAL person with REAL goals. And getting to cheer them on? That’s the good stuff.

Curious about my supplement and peptide journey or what my customers are sharing? 💌 Comment “READY” or send me a DM. I’m happy to share my experience, answer questions about the process, and help you identify what products would be best for YOU! 🫶🏾
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#PeptideJourney #GLP1Journey #WomenOver40Wellness #WeightLossJourney #MidlifeWellness
and I hate to burst your bubble, but my phone is N and I hate to burst your bubble, but my phone is NEVER dead….and I always carry a portable charger! 👊🏾
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#auntielife #auntielifeisthebestlife #foe #nephew #idontplayaboutmine
Justin: “Babe, you look really small today..” Me: Justin: “Babe, you look really small today..”

Me: “really? you think? 👀 Do I look ok?”

Justin: “You’ve always looked great, but you look really good! I’m proud of you!”

Me: “☺️😚 oh stooooop…..but no keep going!” ha!

LISTEN! If I don’t stick to my upgraded wellness routine for any other reason, I’m going to stick to it for my damn self-esteem and the renewed sense of confidence it has given me! 

Unless you’ve personally experienced it, you just won’t understand. But being a woman and turning 40 is NOT, I repeat, is NOT for the weak! Your body changes in ways you never even imagined, and with that comes being discouraged and extremely hard on yourself when the reflection in the mirror isn’t what you had been use to for the prior 39 years! 

So today, I’m celebrating the fact that I got out of my own way and made the decision to get back to ME!  Heck, ya’ll just might see me come out of retirement and sign up to run another marathon! 😂🎉 Who’s joining me?!? Any takers👀👀

Happy Monday Friends! Don’t forget to go be great today! 💪🏽
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#mondaymotivaton #weightlossjourney #womenover40 #peptidejourney
HOW ABOUT THEM CAAAAAATS!!! 💙😻 #BBN STAND UP!! 👏🏽 HOW ABOUT THEM CAAAAAATS!!! 💙😻

#BBN STAND UP!! 👏🏽
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#kentuckyfootball #secfootball #weareuk #kentuckywildcats
Don’t be like me and take a whole year to finally Don’t be like me and take a whole year to finally decide what’s best for you! Just do it! Lock in for 3 months and prepare to be amazing at how your body transforms from the inside out! 

I can share this with you because I lived it! Even though I regret waiting so long to start, I’m also just extremely thankful I FINALLY did! 

💙 16.8lbs down
💙 Mood improved
💙 Food noise gone - appetite controlled
💙 Better sleep
💙 Clean energy all day long
💙 Hair, Skin, Nails flourishing
💙 Down a pant, shirt and dress size
💙 Literally THRIVING 👏🏽

If you’re navigating weight changes, perimenopause, or just trying to feel like yourself again, I SEE YOU. ❤️

👇🏽 Comment “READY” or DM me if you’re curious about my personal journey, what I changed, and the questions I asked before getting started.

And FOLLOW along, because baby…we’re just getting started. 
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#GLP1Journey #WomenOver40Wellness #PerimenopauseJourney #WeightLossJourney LVRX
Every time someone asks me about my peptide journe Every time someone asks me about my peptide journey and says, “But I’m still on the fence…” 👀

My response? BABY, I LIVED ON THAT FENCE FOR ALMOST A YEAR! 😂👏🏽

I questioned everything. Overthought everything. And talked myself out of even exploring my options more times than I can count.

But here’s what I’ve learned and what I now tell everyone to else……Give yourself 3 MONTHS.

Not just 3 months on peptides. Three months of getting serious about YOU. LOCK IN. 🔒 Your nutrition. Your water. Your movement. Your consistency. And give yourself a real opportunity to see what changes.

Because 3 months are going to pass whether you do something differently or not. 👏🏽

I’m almost 17 pounds down, feeling more like myself again, and STILL working toward my goals! 🖤

And trust me…I’m glad I finally stopped letting fear make my decisions.

🔥 Curious about my peptide journey and what I’ve changed? Comment “READY” or DM me “READY” and I’ll share my experience and current wellness routine!

FOLLOW for more real-life wellness, perimenopause, and weight-loss journey updates from a woman navigating her 40s right along with you!

{My results are personal, not guaranteed. Peptide treatments aren’t appropriate for everyone and should be discussed with a qualified healthcare professional.}
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#GLP1Journey #PeptideJourney #PerimenopauseWeightLoss #WomenOver40Wellness #WeightLossJourney
Underestimate me….PLEASE!!! I love it when that ha Underestimate me….PLEASE!!! I love it when that happens! 👊🏾
Plot twist: the girl who said “ABSOLUTELY NOT” for Plot twist: the girl who said “ABSOLUTELY NOT” for almost a year…finally tried it. 😂🌶️

And if you know me, you know I researched, questioned, overthought and probably annoyed everybody with 947 questions first. 😂

But eventually I realized something: Being skeptical is fine. Staying uninformed because you’re skeptical is different.

So, after talking with my provider, I decided to try a medically supervised microdose as one part of a bigger wellness routine—nutrition, movement, hydration, supplementation and consistency included.

And 11 weeks later? 16 lbs down and, beyond the scale, I’m feeling more like myself again. 🙌🏾

Do I wish I had started sooner? Girl…YES.
But apparently I needed all 947 questions answered first.😂😂

If you’ve been watching from the sidelines because you have questions too, ASK THEM.

🌶️ Comment “PEPPER” and I’ll share more about my experience and what I changed in my overall wellness routine.

And FOLLOW if you’re navigating wellness, weight changes and all that comes with perimenopause after 40 right along with me. 🖤

(My experience is personal; results vary.)
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#GLP1Journey #WomenOver40Wellness #PerimenopauseWeightLoss #WeightLossJourney #MidlifeWellness
HOW ABOUT THEM CATS!!!! 😻💙 UK 35 - SC 34 . . . #b HOW ABOUT THEM CATS!!!! 😻💙 
UK 35 - SC 34
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#bbn #weareuk #ukfootball #universityofkentuckyfootball #uk
Apparently I had my 40s ALL wrong. 😂👏🏽 I@really th Apparently I had my 40s ALL wrong. 😂👏🏽 I@really thought this was just…it.

The weight gain.
The inflammation.
The clothes fitting too tight.
The energy changes.
And looking in the mirror thinking, “Well damn…is this what we’re doing now?” 🥴😂

Then I decided I wasn’t spending the rest of my 40s simply accepting a version of myself I didn’t feel good in.

So I changed some things.
Got serious about my wellness.
Stayed consistent.
And stopped talking myself out of trying something different.

16 pounds later just over the last 11 weeks……And I’m not even finished.

This chapter isn’t about trying to look 25 again. It’s about becoming the healthiest, strongest, most confident version of ME at THIS age. And apparently……what I’m doing is working!! 

If you’re in your 40s thinking, “I just want to feel like myself again,” I got you!

👇🏽 Comment “READY” and I’ll share what I changed and what my current wellness routine looks like.

And FOLLOW because this little midlife plot twist is just getting started. 😂🖤
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#WomenOver40 #PerimenopauseJourney #WomenOver40Wellness #MidlifeWellness #WeightLossJourney
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My favorite notifications lately? THESE RIGHT HERE My favorite notifications lately? THESE RIGHT HERE. 😭👏🏽🖤

Listen, I can talk about my own wellness journey ALL DAY LONG, but when my phone starts lighting up with messages from customers sharing their experiences? THAT’S A WHOLE DIFFERENT KIND OF EXCITEMENT! 🔥

The nervous first-timers realizing the process wasn’t nearly as intimidating as they expected.

The customers celebrating their weight-loss milestones.

The messages about feeling better, having more energy, and noticing changes they’re genuinely excited about.

And yes…apparently some of y’all are going to need a new wardrobe. 😂🛍️

THIS is why I love what I do.

Not just sharing products, but being someone my customers can ask questions, lean on for accountability, and celebrate their wins with.

Because behind every one of these messages is a REAL person with REAL goals. And getting to cheer them on? That’s the good stuff.

Curious about my supplement and peptide journey or what my customers are sharing? 💌 Comment “READY” or send me a DM. I’m happy to share my experience, answer questions about the process, and help you identify what products would be best for YOU! 🫶🏾
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#PeptideJourney #GLP1Journey #WomenOver40Wellness #WeightLossJourney #MidlifeWellness
and I hate to burst your bubble, but my phone is N and I hate to burst your bubble, but my phone is NEVER dead….and I always carry a portable charger! 👊🏾
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#auntielife #auntielifeisthebestlife #foe #nephew #idontplayaboutmine
Justin: “Babe, you look really small today..” Me: Justin: “Babe, you look really small today..”

Me: “really? you think? 👀 Do I look ok?”

Justin: “You’ve always looked great, but you look really good! I’m proud of you!”

Me: “☺️😚 oh stooooop…..but no keep going!” ha!

LISTEN! If I don’t stick to my upgraded wellness routine for any other reason, I’m going to stick to it for my damn self-esteem and the renewed sense of confidence it has given me! 

Unless you’ve personally experienced it, you just won’t understand. But being a woman and turning 40 is NOT, I repeat, is NOT for the weak! Your body changes in ways you never even imagined, and with that comes being discouraged and extremely hard on yourself when the reflection in the mirror isn’t what you had been use to for the prior 39 years! 

So today, I’m celebrating the fact that I got out of my own way and made the decision to get back to ME!  Heck, ya’ll just might see me come out of retirement and sign up to run another marathon! 😂🎉 Who’s joining me?!? Any takers👀👀

Happy Monday Friends! Don’t forget to go be great today! 💪🏽
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#mondaymotivaton #weightlossjourney #womenover40 #peptidejourney
HOW ABOUT THEM CAAAAAATS!!! 💙😻 #BBN STAND UP!! 👏🏽 HOW ABOUT THEM CAAAAAATS!!! 💙😻

#BBN STAND UP!! 👏🏽
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#kentuckyfootball #secfootball #weareuk #kentuckywildcats
Don’t be like me and take a whole year to finally Don’t be like me and take a whole year to finally decide what’s best for you! Just do it! Lock in for 3 months and prepare to be amazing at how your body transforms from the inside out! 

I can share this with you because I lived it! Even though I regret waiting so long to start, I’m also just extremely thankful I FINALLY did! 

💙 16.8lbs down
💙 Mood improved
💙 Food noise gone - appetite controlled
💙 Better sleep
💙 Clean energy all day long
💙 Hair, Skin, Nails flourishing
💙 Down a pant, shirt and dress size
💙 Literally THRIVING 👏🏽

If you’re navigating weight changes, perimenopause, or just trying to feel like yourself again, I SEE YOU. ❤️

👇🏽 Comment “READY” or DM me if you’re curious about my personal journey, what I changed, and the questions I asked before getting started.

And FOLLOW along, because baby…we’re just getting started. 
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Every time someone asks me about my peptide journe Every time someone asks me about my peptide journey and says, “But I’m still on the fence…” 👀

My response? BABY, I LIVED ON THAT FENCE FOR ALMOST A YEAR! 😂👏🏽

I questioned everything. Overthought everything. And talked myself out of even exploring my options more times than I can count.

But here’s what I’ve learned and what I now tell everyone to else……Give yourself 3 MONTHS.

Not just 3 months on peptides. Three months of getting serious about YOU. LOCK IN. 🔒 Your nutrition. Your water. Your movement. Your consistency. And give yourself a real opportunity to see what changes.

Because 3 months are going to pass whether you do something differently or not. 👏🏽

I’m almost 17 pounds down, feeling more like myself again, and STILL working toward my goals! 🖤

And trust me…I’m glad I finally stopped letting fear make my decisions.

🔥 Curious about my peptide journey and what I’ve changed? Comment “READY” or DM me “READY” and I’ll share my experience and current wellness routine!

FOLLOW for more real-life wellness, perimenopause, and weight-loss journey updates from a woman navigating her 40s right along with you!

{My results are personal, not guaranteed. Peptide treatments aren’t appropriate for everyone and should be discussed with a qualified healthcare professional.}
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Underestimate me….PLEASE!!! I love it when that ha Underestimate me….PLEASE!!! I love it when that happens! 👊🏾
Plot twist: the girl who said “ABSOLUTELY NOT” for Plot twist: the girl who said “ABSOLUTELY NOT” for almost a year…finally tried it. 😂🌶️

And if you know me, you know I researched, questioned, overthought and probably annoyed everybody with 947 questions first. 😂

But eventually I realized something: Being skeptical is fine. Staying uninformed because you’re skeptical is different.

So, after talking with my provider, I decided to try a medically supervised microdose as one part of a bigger wellness routine—nutrition, movement, hydration, supplementation and consistency included.

And 11 weeks later? 16 lbs down and, beyond the scale, I’m feeling more like myself again. 🙌🏾

Do I wish I had started sooner? Girl…YES.
But apparently I needed all 947 questions answered first.😂😂

If you’ve been watching from the sidelines because you have questions too, ASK THEM.

🌶️ Comment “PEPPER” and I’ll share more about my experience and what I changed in my overall wellness routine.

And FOLLOW if you’re navigating wellness, weight changes and all that comes with perimenopause after 40 right along with me. 🖤

(My experience is personal; results vary.)
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Apparently I had my 40s ALL wrong. 😂👏🏽 I@really th Apparently I had my 40s ALL wrong. 😂👏🏽 I@really thought this was just…it.

The weight gain.
The inflammation.
The clothes fitting too tight.
The energy changes.
And looking in the mirror thinking, “Well damn…is this what we’re doing now?” 🥴😂

Then I decided I wasn’t spending the rest of my 40s simply accepting a version of myself I didn’t feel good in.

So I changed some things.
Got serious about my wellness.
Stayed consistent.
And stopped talking myself out of trying something different.

16 pounds later just over the last 11 weeks……And I’m not even finished.

This chapter isn’t about trying to look 25 again. It’s about becoming the healthiest, strongest, most confident version of ME at THIS age. And apparently……what I’m doing is working!! 

If you’re in your 40s thinking, “I just want to feel like myself again,” I got you!

👇🏽 Comment “READY” and I’ll share what I changed and what my current wellness routine looks like.

And FOLLOW because this little midlife plot twist is just getting started. 😂🖤
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