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Where in the world is the time going 🤯😭 My Where in the world is the time going 🤯😭

My sweet JoJo is 10 today, and I am unwell! 

To the one that keeps us all on our toes, HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY JOJO! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
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#hbd #happybirthday #birthdayboy #nephew
They’re still talking about the old me. That’s They’re still talking about the old me. That’s Cute.
She was just the trailer. 🖤
and we can’t let the day go by without wishing t and we can’t let the day go by without wishing the biggest HAPPY BIRTHDAY to our Maddox (aka MADDOG)!!!! 

I can’t believe you’re already 15! 🤯 😭

Hope you have the best day ever!! We will be celebrating soon!!!! #JCole 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!🎁🎉🎈 Love you!!
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#happybirthday #nephew #hbd
Getting to shower these two yesterday was so extre Getting to shower these two yesterday was so extremely special to me! Baby Malakai will be here before we know it, and that baby is already so loved (and spoiled 😂). 

More pics coming soon! 😉
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#babyshower #momtobe #newparents #thenextchapter
Real talk, from me to you: doing what’s right fo Real talk, from me to you: doing what’s right for your life will sometimes mean standing in a room full of people — completely alone. Do it anyway.

I know what it feels like to shrink. To keep a dream quiet because you already know how people are going to react. To say yes to everyone else and nothing to yourself. I lived there for a long time.

When I started building my health and wellness business I wasn’t met with applause. I was met with doubt, silence, and the kind of ‘support’ that comes with a side of skepticism. I almost let that be the reason I stopped.

But I kept going. And that business people quietly doubted? It pays me every single week. It built me a community of people who chose themselves too — who were standing alone in their own rooms before they found this. Now we stand together.

People pleasing is self-abandonment with a smile. And you have been abandoning yourself long enough.
You don’t need permission. You just need to decide that you matter enough to try.

Drop ALONE in my comments or DM me — I took the step nobody clapped for, and I’ll walk this road with you. 💙
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#chooseyourself #peoplepleaser #selfabandonment #realtalk #standalone
“Scared money don’t make money. Scared decisio “Scared money don’t make money. Scared decisions don’t make change.” And I say that as someone who used to let fear run everything — my finances, my choices, my future.

I spent so long waiting for the perfect moment to start something different. Waiting until I had more money. More time. More confidence. More certainty. And while I was waiting, nothing changed. The bills didn’t wait. The years didn’t wait. Life didn’t wait. and the weight didn’t magically fall off 😂😂😂

The thing that finally shifted me wasn’t a magic moment. It was a decision. A decision to stop letting fear be the loudest voice in the room and start betting on myself for once.

I found a health and wellness business that let me start exactly where I was — no experience, no huge platform, no perfect plan. Just a system that works, products that actually changed how I feel every single day, and a team of people who showed up for me the way I now show up for others.

The people on my team were scared too. They overthought it too. They had the same lists of reasons why it wasn’t the right time. The only difference is they jumped anyway — and now they’re hitting bonuses, building income, and feeling better than they have in years.

If fear has been making your decisions, this is your sign to take it back. You deserve to find out what happens when you finally bet on yourself.

Drop LEAP in the comments or slide into my DMs and let’s talk about what this could look like for your life. I took the leap. I’ll help you take yours. 💚
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#taketheleap #mindsetshift #womeninbusiness #financialfreedom #workfromhome
Manifesting the day we get to scream ‘WE DID IT! Manifesting the day we get to scream ‘WE DID IT!’ because we never gave up. 🖤

This is what building together looks like. Two women who decided that the life they wanted wasn’t going to build itself — so they showed up, stayed consistent, and refused to quit on each other or themselves.

That’s what this business is at its core. It’s not just about the income, the bonuses, or the free products — although all of that is very real. It’s about having somebody in your corner who genuinely wants to see you win. A team that celebrates your first sale like it’s their own. People who answer the phone, share the knowledge, and remind you why you started when the days get hard.

We are building something here that goes beyond a paycheck. We’re building health — real, physical, feel-it-in-your-body health. We’re building financial freedom for families who have never had it. We’re building a legacy that our spouses, kids, nieces, nephews, etc get to watch us create in real time.

If you’ve been on the sidelines watching and something in you keeps saying ‘I want that’ — that feeling is not an accident. That’s your sign.

We are actively looking for NEW people to add to this team. People who are hungry, coachable, and ready to finally bet on themselves. You don’t need experience. You just need to be willing to show up.

Drop 🖤 in the comments or DM us the word TEAM and let’s have a real conversation about what this could look like for your life.
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#joinus #nwm #passiveincome #thriveexperience #teambelievenation
Happy Sunday Friends! It’s #SampleSunday I’m s Happy Sunday Friends! It’s #SampleSunday I’m sharing what the Thrive Experience is and how it’s changed my life over the last five and a half years. I talk about a three-step system designed to boost energy, mental clarity, gut health, and overall wellness.

I’m offering TEN lucky followers a free three-day mini experience sample pack, and I encourage you to comment SAMPLE if you’re interested in trying it and experiencing the difference for yourself.#.
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#thriveexperience #freesample #sample
#DateNight…let the birthday celebrations continu #DateNight…let the birthday celebrations continue 🫶🏽💙🫶🏽 #HBDtome
We (my fellow millennials) did everything right an We (my fellow millennials) did everything right and still ended up exhausted, underpaid, and running on empty. That’s not a personal failure — that’s a broken system. And for a long time I accepted it because I didn’t know there was another option.

Then I found something that changed everything for me. I’m part of a wellness movement that doesn’t just help people feel better physically — it gives them a real vehicle to build income at the same time. I help everyday people — moms, professionals, side hustlers, 9-to-5ers who are quietly over it — get their health back, get their energy back, and build a business doing it. From their phone. Around their life. On their own terms.

We’re talking premium grade nutrition that people actually feel — better sleep, more energy, sharper focus, less inflammation — paired with a business model that pays you to share what’s already working for you. No storefront. No inventory. No boss. Just a system, a community, and someone in your corner showing you exactly how it’s done.

The people on my team are hitting cash bonuses in their first 30 days. They’re replacing car payments, covering bills, taking trips they thought were years away — all while feeling the best they’ve felt in years. That’s what this is. That’s what I do.

You didn’t survive everything you’ve been through just to stay stuck in a cycle that was never built for you to win. The cheat code exists and I found it — and I’m handing it directly to you.

Drop CHEATCODE in the comments or slide into my DMs and I will personally walk you through everything. No pitch. No pressure. Just real information for people who are finally ready to choose themselves. 💚
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Business, Lifestyle, Motivation · August 4, 2020

Wake Up and Get Over Yourself

As I sit here typing this, I am so beyond thankful for this little black patch on my arm. Thankful for the energy it gives me and for the mood support it’s providing right now, because the old me would have already been on 100 right about now!⁣

📛People love to try you⁣
📛People love to shower you with their negativity⁣
📛People love to play victim⁣
📛People can never see the glass half full⁣
📛People can never see past their own BS⁣
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Why? Because they are stuck in a small mindset that doesn’t allow them to think any other way. They think this big ole world we live in only revolves around them, therefore their problems are the problems of the world.⁣
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Well I’m here to tell you that if you want different, you have to go find different. You want change, well it starts with you. You can’t rely on other people to change your situation or your life. That has to be done by you boo boo! ⁣
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So when you’re ready to stop having your pity party, my tribe and I will be here to help open your mind to something different…..but only when you’re ready! ⁣
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Happy Tuesday Ya’ll. LET’S GO! I💪🏽

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Where in the world is the time going 🤯😭 My Where in the world is the time going 🤯😭

My sweet JoJo is 10 today, and I am unwell! 

To the one that keeps us all on our toes, HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY JOJO! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
.
.
.
.
#hbd #happybirthday #birthdayboy #nephew
They’re still talking about the old me. That’s They’re still talking about the old me. That’s Cute.
She was just the trailer. 🖤
and we can’t let the day go by without wishing t and we can’t let the day go by without wishing the biggest HAPPY BIRTHDAY to our Maddox (aka MADDOG)!!!! 

I can’t believe you’re already 15! 🤯 😭

Hope you have the best day ever!! We will be celebrating soon!!!! #JCole 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!🎁🎉🎈 Love you!!
.
.
.
.
#happybirthday #nephew #hbd
Getting to shower these two yesterday was so extre Getting to shower these two yesterday was so extremely special to me! Baby Malakai will be here before we know it, and that baby is already so loved (and spoiled 😂). 

More pics coming soon! 😉
.
.
.
.
#babyshower #momtobe #newparents #thenextchapter
Real talk, from me to you: doing what’s right fo Real talk, from me to you: doing what’s right for your life will sometimes mean standing in a room full of people — completely alone. Do it anyway.

I know what it feels like to shrink. To keep a dream quiet because you already know how people are going to react. To say yes to everyone else and nothing to yourself. I lived there for a long time.

When I started building my health and wellness business I wasn’t met with applause. I was met with doubt, silence, and the kind of ‘support’ that comes with a side of skepticism. I almost let that be the reason I stopped.

But I kept going. And that business people quietly doubted? It pays me every single week. It built me a community of people who chose themselves too — who were standing alone in their own rooms before they found this. Now we stand together.

People pleasing is self-abandonment with a smile. And you have been abandoning yourself long enough.
You don’t need permission. You just need to decide that you matter enough to try.

Drop ALONE in my comments or DM me — I took the step nobody clapped for, and I’ll walk this road with you. 💙
.
.
.
.
.
#chooseyourself #peoplepleaser #selfabandonment #realtalk #standalone
“Scared money don’t make money. Scared decisio “Scared money don’t make money. Scared decisions don’t make change.” And I say that as someone who used to let fear run everything — my finances, my choices, my future.

I spent so long waiting for the perfect moment to start something different. Waiting until I had more money. More time. More confidence. More certainty. And while I was waiting, nothing changed. The bills didn’t wait. The years didn’t wait. Life didn’t wait. and the weight didn’t magically fall off 😂😂😂

The thing that finally shifted me wasn’t a magic moment. It was a decision. A decision to stop letting fear be the loudest voice in the room and start betting on myself for once.

I found a health and wellness business that let me start exactly where I was — no experience, no huge platform, no perfect plan. Just a system that works, products that actually changed how I feel every single day, and a team of people who showed up for me the way I now show up for others.

The people on my team were scared too. They overthought it too. They had the same lists of reasons why it wasn’t the right time. The only difference is they jumped anyway — and now they’re hitting bonuses, building income, and feeling better than they have in years.

If fear has been making your decisions, this is your sign to take it back. You deserve to find out what happens when you finally bet on yourself.

Drop LEAP in the comments or slide into my DMs and let’s talk about what this could look like for your life. I took the leap. I’ll help you take yours. 💚
.
.
.
.
.
#taketheleap #mindsetshift #womeninbusiness #financialfreedom #workfromhome
Manifesting the day we get to scream ‘WE DID IT! Manifesting the day we get to scream ‘WE DID IT!’ because we never gave up. 🖤

This is what building together looks like. Two women who decided that the life they wanted wasn’t going to build itself — so they showed up, stayed consistent, and refused to quit on each other or themselves.

That’s what this business is at its core. It’s not just about the income, the bonuses, or the free products — although all of that is very real. It’s about having somebody in your corner who genuinely wants to see you win. A team that celebrates your first sale like it’s their own. People who answer the phone, share the knowledge, and remind you why you started when the days get hard.

We are building something here that goes beyond a paycheck. We’re building health — real, physical, feel-it-in-your-body health. We’re building financial freedom for families who have never had it. We’re building a legacy that our spouses, kids, nieces, nephews, etc get to watch us create in real time.

If you’ve been on the sidelines watching and something in you keeps saying ‘I want that’ — that feeling is not an accident. That’s your sign.

We are actively looking for NEW people to add to this team. People who are hungry, coachable, and ready to finally bet on themselves. You don’t need experience. You just need to be willing to show up.

Drop 🖤 in the comments or DM us the word TEAM and let’s have a real conversation about what this could look like for your life.
.
.
.
.
.
#joinus #nwm #passiveincome #thriveexperience #teambelievenation
Happy Sunday Friends! It’s #SampleSunday I’m s Happy Sunday Friends! It’s #SampleSunday I’m sharing what the Thrive Experience is and how it’s changed my life over the last five and a half years. I talk about a three-step system designed to boost energy, mental clarity, gut health, and overall wellness.

I’m offering TEN lucky followers a free three-day mini experience sample pack, and I encourage you to comment SAMPLE if you’re interested in trying it and experiencing the difference for yourself.#.
.
.
.
.
#thriveexperience #freesample #sample
#DateNight…let the birthday celebrations continu #DateNight…let the birthday celebrations continue 🫶🏽💙🫶🏽 #HBDtome
We (my fellow millennials) did everything right an We (my fellow millennials) did everything right and still ended up exhausted, underpaid, and running on empty. That’s not a personal failure — that’s a broken system. And for a long time I accepted it because I didn’t know there was another option.

Then I found something that changed everything for me. I’m part of a wellness movement that doesn’t just help people feel better physically — it gives them a real vehicle to build income at the same time. I help everyday people — moms, professionals, side hustlers, 9-to-5ers who are quietly over it — get their health back, get their energy back, and build a business doing it. From their phone. Around their life. On their own terms.

We’re talking premium grade nutrition that people actually feel — better sleep, more energy, sharper focus, less inflammation — paired with a business model that pays you to share what’s already working for you. No storefront. No inventory. No boss. Just a system, a community, and someone in your corner showing you exactly how it’s done.

The people on my team are hitting cash bonuses in their first 30 days. They’re replacing car payments, covering bills, taking trips they thought were years away — all while feeling the best they’ve felt in years. That’s what this is. That’s what I do.

You didn’t survive everything you’ve been through just to stay stuck in a cycle that was never built for you to win. The cheat code exists and I found it — and I’m handing it directly to you.

Drop CHEATCODE in the comments or slide into my DMs and I will personally walk you through everything. No pitch. No pressure. Just real information for people who are finally ready to choose themselves. 💚
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#millennialmoney #workfromhome #financialfreedom #millennialwomen #millennialmom
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Where in the world is the time going 🤯😭 My Where in the world is the time going 🤯😭

My sweet JoJo is 10 today, and I am unwell! 

To the one that keeps us all on our toes, HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY JOJO! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
.
.
.
.
#hbd #happybirthday #birthdayboy #nephew
They’re still talking about the old me. That’s They’re still talking about the old me. That’s Cute.
She was just the trailer. 🖤
and we can’t let the day go by without wishing t and we can’t let the day go by without wishing the biggest HAPPY BIRTHDAY to our Maddox (aka MADDOG)!!!! 

I can’t believe you’re already 15! 🤯 😭

Hope you have the best day ever!! We will be celebrating soon!!!! #JCole 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!🎁🎉🎈 Love you!!
.
.
.
.
#happybirthday #nephew #hbd
Getting to shower these two yesterday was so extre Getting to shower these two yesterday was so extremely special to me! Baby Malakai will be here before we know it, and that baby is already so loved (and spoiled 😂). 

More pics coming soon! 😉
.
.
.
.
#babyshower #momtobe #newparents #thenextchapter
Real talk, from me to you: doing what’s right fo Real talk, from me to you: doing what’s right for your life will sometimes mean standing in a room full of people — completely alone. Do it anyway.

I know what it feels like to shrink. To keep a dream quiet because you already know how people are going to react. To say yes to everyone else and nothing to yourself. I lived there for a long time.

When I started building my health and wellness business I wasn’t met with applause. I was met with doubt, silence, and the kind of ‘support’ that comes with a side of skepticism. I almost let that be the reason I stopped.

But I kept going. And that business people quietly doubted? It pays me every single week. It built me a community of people who chose themselves too — who were standing alone in their own rooms before they found this. Now we stand together.

People pleasing is self-abandonment with a smile. And you have been abandoning yourself long enough.
You don’t need permission. You just need to decide that you matter enough to try.

Drop ALONE in my comments or DM me — I took the step nobody clapped for, and I’ll walk this road with you. 💙
.
.
.
.
.
#chooseyourself #peoplepleaser #selfabandonment #realtalk #standalone
“Scared money don’t make money. Scared decisio “Scared money don’t make money. Scared decisions don’t make change.” And I say that as someone who used to let fear run everything — my finances, my choices, my future.

I spent so long waiting for the perfect moment to start something different. Waiting until I had more money. More time. More confidence. More certainty. And while I was waiting, nothing changed. The bills didn’t wait. The years didn’t wait. Life didn’t wait. and the weight didn’t magically fall off 😂😂😂

The thing that finally shifted me wasn’t a magic moment. It was a decision. A decision to stop letting fear be the loudest voice in the room and start betting on myself for once.

I found a health and wellness business that let me start exactly where I was — no experience, no huge platform, no perfect plan. Just a system that works, products that actually changed how I feel every single day, and a team of people who showed up for me the way I now show up for others.

The people on my team were scared too. They overthought it too. They had the same lists of reasons why it wasn’t the right time. The only difference is they jumped anyway — and now they’re hitting bonuses, building income, and feeling better than they have in years.

If fear has been making your decisions, this is your sign to take it back. You deserve to find out what happens when you finally bet on yourself.

Drop LEAP in the comments or slide into my DMs and let’s talk about what this could look like for your life. I took the leap. I’ll help you take yours. 💚
.
.
.
.
.
#taketheleap #mindsetshift #womeninbusiness #financialfreedom #workfromhome
Manifesting the day we get to scream ‘WE DID IT! Manifesting the day we get to scream ‘WE DID IT!’ because we never gave up. 🖤

This is what building together looks like. Two women who decided that the life they wanted wasn’t going to build itself — so they showed up, stayed consistent, and refused to quit on each other or themselves.

That’s what this business is at its core. It’s not just about the income, the bonuses, or the free products — although all of that is very real. It’s about having somebody in your corner who genuinely wants to see you win. A team that celebrates your first sale like it’s their own. People who answer the phone, share the knowledge, and remind you why you started when the days get hard.

We are building something here that goes beyond a paycheck. We’re building health — real, physical, feel-it-in-your-body health. We’re building financial freedom for families who have never had it. We’re building a legacy that our spouses, kids, nieces, nephews, etc get to watch us create in real time.

If you’ve been on the sidelines watching and something in you keeps saying ‘I want that’ — that feeling is not an accident. That’s your sign.

We are actively looking for NEW people to add to this team. People who are hungry, coachable, and ready to finally bet on themselves. You don’t need experience. You just need to be willing to show up.

Drop 🖤 in the comments or DM us the word TEAM and let’s have a real conversation about what this could look like for your life.
.
.
.
.
.
#joinus #nwm #passiveincome #thriveexperience #teambelievenation
Happy Sunday Friends! It’s #SampleSunday I’m s Happy Sunday Friends! It’s #SampleSunday I’m sharing what the Thrive Experience is and how it’s changed my life over the last five and a half years. I talk about a three-step system designed to boost energy, mental clarity, gut health, and overall wellness.

I’m offering TEN lucky followers a free three-day mini experience sample pack, and I encourage you to comment SAMPLE if you’re interested in trying it and experiencing the difference for yourself.#.
.
.
.
.
#thriveexperience #freesample #sample
#DateNight…let the birthday celebrations continu #DateNight…let the birthday celebrations continue 🫶🏽💙🫶🏽 #HBDtome
We (my fellow millennials) did everything right an We (my fellow millennials) did everything right and still ended up exhausted, underpaid, and running on empty. That’s not a personal failure — that’s a broken system. And for a long time I accepted it because I didn’t know there was another option.

Then I found something that changed everything for me. I’m part of a wellness movement that doesn’t just help people feel better physically — it gives them a real vehicle to build income at the same time. I help everyday people — moms, professionals, side hustlers, 9-to-5ers who are quietly over it — get their health back, get their energy back, and build a business doing it. From their phone. Around their life. On their own terms.

We’re talking premium grade nutrition that people actually feel — better sleep, more energy, sharper focus, less inflammation — paired with a business model that pays you to share what’s already working for you. No storefront. No inventory. No boss. Just a system, a community, and someone in your corner showing you exactly how it’s done.

The people on my team are hitting cash bonuses in their first 30 days. They’re replacing car payments, covering bills, taking trips they thought were years away — all while feeling the best they’ve felt in years. That’s what this is. That’s what I do.

You didn’t survive everything you’ve been through just to stay stuck in a cycle that was never built for you to win. The cheat code exists and I found it — and I’m handing it directly to you.

Drop CHEATCODE in the comments or slide into my DMs and I will personally walk you through everything. No pitch. No pressure. Just real information for people who are finally ready to choose themselves. 💚
.
.
.
.
#millennialmoney #workfromhome #financialfreedom #millennialwomen #millennialmom
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