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ATTN CORPORATE GIRLIES — this is our new anthem ATTN CORPORATE GIRLIES — this is our new anthem and I will not be taking questions. 👏🏽

Get your mind right before you walk into that office sis. Because you are not just an employee. You are a whole entrepreneur who happens to still have a day job — and there is a difference.

The corporate world needs us present. But our dreams need us building. And the beautiful thing? We’re doing both. So turn this up on the way in. Fix your crown in the rearview. Walk through those doors like the main character you absolutely are — because after hours? We’re building something that’s going to make the 9-to-5 optional.

Love yourself loud sis. In the parking lot. In the boardroom. And especially when you’re building a life nobody handed you.

Drop 💛 if you’re a corporate girlie who’s also out here building something on the side — I see you and I am you. Let’s connect.
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#corporategirlie #9to5life #ilovemyloud #workfromhome #corporateentrepreneur
Where in the world is the time going 🤯😭 My Where in the world is the time going 🤯😭

My sweet JoJo is 10 today, and I am unwell! 

To the one that keeps us all on our toes, HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY JOJO! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
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#hbd #happybirthday #birthdayboy #nephew
They’re still talking about the old me. That’s They’re still talking about the old me. That’s Cute.
She was just the trailer. 🖤
and we can’t let the day go by without wishing t and we can’t let the day go by without wishing the biggest HAPPY BIRTHDAY to our Maddox (aka MADDOG)!!!! 

I can’t believe you’re already 15! 🤯 😭

Hope you have the best day ever!! We will be celebrating soon!!!! #JCole 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!🎁🎉🎈 Love you!!
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#happybirthday #nephew #hbd
Getting to shower these two yesterday was so extre Getting to shower these two yesterday was so extremely special to me! Baby Malakai will be here before we know it, and that baby is already so loved (and spoiled 😂). 

More pics coming soon! 😉
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#babyshower #momtobe #newparents #thenextchapter
Real talk, from me to you: doing what’s right fo Real talk, from me to you: doing what’s right for your life will sometimes mean standing in a room full of people — completely alone. Do it anyway.

I know what it feels like to shrink. To keep a dream quiet because you already know how people are going to react. To say yes to everyone else and nothing to yourself. I lived there for a long time.

When I started building my health and wellness business I wasn’t met with applause. I was met with doubt, silence, and the kind of ‘support’ that comes with a side of skepticism. I almost let that be the reason I stopped.

But I kept going. And that business people quietly doubted? It pays me every single week. It built me a community of people who chose themselves too — who were standing alone in their own rooms before they found this. Now we stand together.

People pleasing is self-abandonment with a smile. And you have been abandoning yourself long enough.
You don’t need permission. You just need to decide that you matter enough to try.

Drop ALONE in my comments or DM me — I took the step nobody clapped for, and I’ll walk this road with you. 💙
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#chooseyourself #peoplepleaser #selfabandonment #realtalk #standalone
“Scared money don’t make money. Scared decisio “Scared money don’t make money. Scared decisions don’t make change.” And I say that as someone who used to let fear run everything — my finances, my choices, my future.

I spent so long waiting for the perfect moment to start something different. Waiting until I had more money. More time. More confidence. More certainty. And while I was waiting, nothing changed. The bills didn’t wait. The years didn’t wait. Life didn’t wait. and the weight didn’t magically fall off 😂😂😂

The thing that finally shifted me wasn’t a magic moment. It was a decision. A decision to stop letting fear be the loudest voice in the room and start betting on myself for once.

I found a health and wellness business that let me start exactly where I was — no experience, no huge platform, no perfect plan. Just a system that works, products that actually changed how I feel every single day, and a team of people who showed up for me the way I now show up for others.

The people on my team were scared too. They overthought it too. They had the same lists of reasons why it wasn’t the right time. The only difference is they jumped anyway — and now they’re hitting bonuses, building income, and feeling better than they have in years.

If fear has been making your decisions, this is your sign to take it back. You deserve to find out what happens when you finally bet on yourself.

Drop LEAP in the comments or slide into my DMs and let’s talk about what this could look like for your life. I took the leap. I’ll help you take yours. 💚
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Manifesting the day we get to scream ‘WE DID IT! Manifesting the day we get to scream ‘WE DID IT!’ because we never gave up. 🖤

This is what building together looks like. Two women who decided that the life they wanted wasn’t going to build itself — so they showed up, stayed consistent, and refused to quit on each other or themselves.

That’s what this business is at its core. It’s not just about the income, the bonuses, or the free products — although all of that is very real. It’s about having somebody in your corner who genuinely wants to see you win. A team that celebrates your first sale like it’s their own. People who answer the phone, share the knowledge, and remind you why you started when the days get hard.

We are building something here that goes beyond a paycheck. We’re building health — real, physical, feel-it-in-your-body health. We’re building financial freedom for families who have never had it. We’re building a legacy that our spouses, kids, nieces, nephews, etc get to watch us create in real time.

If you’ve been on the sidelines watching and something in you keeps saying ‘I want that’ — that feeling is not an accident. That’s your sign.

We are actively looking for NEW people to add to this team. People who are hungry, coachable, and ready to finally bet on themselves. You don’t need experience. You just need to be willing to show up.

Drop 🖤 in the comments or DM us the word TEAM and let’s have a real conversation about what this could look like for your life.
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I’m offering TEN lucky followers a free three-day mini experience sample pack, and I encourage you to comment SAMPLE if you’re interested in trying it and experiencing the difference for yourself.#.
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Business · February 10, 2023

You’re Either All In, or On Your Way Out

TGIF Friday! Happy Friday! We’ve done it. We made it through yet another week! It’s so hard to believe we are in our second week of February already. I don’t know if my life is really this busy or if time is just flying by regardless. Apart of me loves it because I have so many exciting things coming up this year, but it also makes me sad. With each passing day, that means I’m getting older, my parents are getting older, my nephews are growing up. It all makes me sad. BUT, that’s also why I hustle so hard, so I can give them the best life possible and have the most amazing experiences with them! So let’s wipe those tears and get down to business today!

It’s Okay to Ask Questions

Let me first start by saying, I absolutely LOVE this industry. I don’t see any point and time where I will NOT be affiliated with a company and amazing products. If I love a product, I want to share it with others; and in return, I want to be compensated by the company for bringing awareness to their brand and their amazing products. Its really just that simple for me. The things I have been able to accomplish and experience in this industry, are memories I will take with me forever, and I am so appreciative. But friends, this is really just the beginning. I’m just getting started, as I have a whole new vision and purpose, and I’m just here to share it with each one of you.

Every single day, I have people asking me questions like:

  • “What exactly is it that you do?”
  • “Do you really make money working from your laptop and your phone?”
  • “Do you really use the products you sell?”
  • “Why did you decide to partner with Modere?”
  • “I want to try but do I have to build a team and recruit people?”
  • “Can I do this part-time?”
  • “How much money can I make?”

Literally, the list goes on and on! And trust me, I LOVE IT ALL! Ask me all the questions. I’m an open book when it comes to this business and industry because I think overall it gets a bad wrap. So many people have a negative perception of this industry because of the saying “One bad apple spoils the bunch!” That applies to both people and businesses. I try my hardest to educate people on the value of this industry and the importance of doing your due diligence to try and partner with the best. The best company, with the best product, leaders, community, and a compensation plan that will make it all worth your time.

I have been fortunate enough to have partnered with a few different companies over the years. I’m thankful for the experiences because they taught me what to look for and what red flags to look for.

Is Network Marketing / Social Retail a Good Fit for You

When it comes to considering Network Marketing for your next career move, or simply just a new stream of income; here are some things to consider: (full explanation of each are in the below youtube video)

  1. Take note of why the industry of network marketing is a smart choice, especially if tackling the world of entrepreneurship is something that is on your bucket list. I will be a fan of this industry until the day I die. I could talk about this forever, so be sure to check out my video below!
  2. Alignment! I can’t stress this one enough. Take it from me……DO NOT SKIP THIS STEP! Make sure you do your research and try to understand the company, product lines, and leaders as much as possible before joining. I say this because not all opportunities are equal, and not everyone is for you. It’s that simple!
  3. Compensation Plan. Look over the compensation plan and make sure that it not only is going to pay you for your efforts (in real time), but also make sure it’s something that can benefit more people than just yourself.
  4. The Products Matter. Find a company that has products that everyone can use, including yourself. Try them and be a product of the products. You want to be able to speak from real personal experience.
  5. Just like with any career, network marketing is hard work. You get out of it what you put in, and to truly be successful, you have to be committed and consistent. I always tell people “You’re either all in, or you’re on your way out!” You can’t be in today, and out tomorrow. Just like a corporate job. You can’t pick and choose when you want to show up for work and expect to get a pay raise, have benefits, or even have a job for that matter! You have to put in the work!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dCsiejPH1KQ

4,000 Subscriber Giveaway

If you watched the above video, then you know that I mentioned we hit our subscriber goal over on YouTube, so now its time for a giveaway! I can’t wait to spoil one of you! Be sure to share this with your family and friends! This is just the first of many! 🙂

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Thanks so much for sharing in this journey with me! If you are curious about learning more about what I do, I would love to share this amazing opportunity with you! Click HERE or find me on social media and let’s chat! Oh yeah, you can always text me too! ha! 502.509.2659 🙂

Happy Friday! Go be great today!

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ATTN CORPORATE GIRLIES — this is our new anthem ATTN CORPORATE GIRLIES — this is our new anthem and I will not be taking questions. 👏🏽

Get your mind right before you walk into that office sis. Because you are not just an employee. You are a whole entrepreneur who happens to still have a day job — and there is a difference.

The corporate world needs us present. But our dreams need us building. And the beautiful thing? We’re doing both. So turn this up on the way in. Fix your crown in the rearview. Walk through those doors like the main character you absolutely are — because after hours? We’re building something that’s going to make the 9-to-5 optional.

Love yourself loud sis. In the parking lot. In the boardroom. And especially when you’re building a life nobody handed you.

Drop 💛 if you’re a corporate girlie who’s also out here building something on the side — I see you and I am you. Let’s connect.
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.
#corporategirlie #9to5life #ilovemyloud #workfromhome #corporateentrepreneur
Where in the world is the time going 🤯😭 My Where in the world is the time going 🤯😭

My sweet JoJo is 10 today, and I am unwell! 

To the one that keeps us all on our toes, HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY JOJO! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
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.
.
#hbd #happybirthday #birthdayboy #nephew
They’re still talking about the old me. That’s They’re still talking about the old me. That’s Cute.
She was just the trailer. 🖤
and we can’t let the day go by without wishing t and we can’t let the day go by without wishing the biggest HAPPY BIRTHDAY to our Maddox (aka MADDOG)!!!! 

I can’t believe you’re already 15! 🤯 😭

Hope you have the best day ever!! We will be celebrating soon!!!! #JCole 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!🎁🎉🎈 Love you!!
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.
.
#happybirthday #nephew #hbd
Getting to shower these two yesterday was so extre Getting to shower these two yesterday was so extremely special to me! Baby Malakai will be here before we know it, and that baby is already so loved (and spoiled 😂). 

More pics coming soon! 😉
.
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.
#babyshower #momtobe #newparents #thenextchapter
Real talk, from me to you: doing what’s right fo Real talk, from me to you: doing what’s right for your life will sometimes mean standing in a room full of people — completely alone. Do it anyway.

I know what it feels like to shrink. To keep a dream quiet because you already know how people are going to react. To say yes to everyone else and nothing to yourself. I lived there for a long time.

When I started building my health and wellness business I wasn’t met with applause. I was met with doubt, silence, and the kind of ‘support’ that comes with a side of skepticism. I almost let that be the reason I stopped.

But I kept going. And that business people quietly doubted? It pays me every single week. It built me a community of people who chose themselves too — who were standing alone in their own rooms before they found this. Now we stand together.

People pleasing is self-abandonment with a smile. And you have been abandoning yourself long enough.
You don’t need permission. You just need to decide that you matter enough to try.

Drop ALONE in my comments or DM me — I took the step nobody clapped for, and I’ll walk this road with you. 💙
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.
.
.
.
#chooseyourself #peoplepleaser #selfabandonment #realtalk #standalone
“Scared money don’t make money. Scared decisio “Scared money don’t make money. Scared decisions don’t make change.” And I say that as someone who used to let fear run everything — my finances, my choices, my future.

I spent so long waiting for the perfect moment to start something different. Waiting until I had more money. More time. More confidence. More certainty. And while I was waiting, nothing changed. The bills didn’t wait. The years didn’t wait. Life didn’t wait. and the weight didn’t magically fall off 😂😂😂

The thing that finally shifted me wasn’t a magic moment. It was a decision. A decision to stop letting fear be the loudest voice in the room and start betting on myself for once.

I found a health and wellness business that let me start exactly where I was — no experience, no huge platform, no perfect plan. Just a system that works, products that actually changed how I feel every single day, and a team of people who showed up for me the way I now show up for others.

The people on my team were scared too. They overthought it too. They had the same lists of reasons why it wasn’t the right time. The only difference is they jumped anyway — and now they’re hitting bonuses, building income, and feeling better than they have in years.

If fear has been making your decisions, this is your sign to take it back. You deserve to find out what happens when you finally bet on yourself.

Drop LEAP in the comments or slide into my DMs and let’s talk about what this could look like for your life. I took the leap. I’ll help you take yours. 💚
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.
#taketheleap #mindsetshift #womeninbusiness #financialfreedom #workfromhome
Manifesting the day we get to scream ‘WE DID IT! Manifesting the day we get to scream ‘WE DID IT!’ because we never gave up. 🖤

This is what building together looks like. Two women who decided that the life they wanted wasn’t going to build itself — so they showed up, stayed consistent, and refused to quit on each other or themselves.

That’s what this business is at its core. It’s not just about the income, the bonuses, or the free products — although all of that is very real. It’s about having somebody in your corner who genuinely wants to see you win. A team that celebrates your first sale like it’s their own. People who answer the phone, share the knowledge, and remind you why you started when the days get hard.

We are building something here that goes beyond a paycheck. We’re building health — real, physical, feel-it-in-your-body health. We’re building financial freedom for families who have never had it. We’re building a legacy that our spouses, kids, nieces, nephews, etc get to watch us create in real time.

If you’ve been on the sidelines watching and something in you keeps saying ‘I want that’ — that feeling is not an accident. That’s your sign.

We are actively looking for NEW people to add to this team. People who are hungry, coachable, and ready to finally bet on themselves. You don’t need experience. You just need to be willing to show up.

Drop 🖤 in the comments or DM us the word TEAM and let’s have a real conversation about what this could look like for your life.
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#joinus #nwm #passiveincome #thriveexperience #teambelievenation
Happy Sunday Friends! It’s #SampleSunday I’m s Happy Sunday Friends! It’s #SampleSunday I’m sharing what the Thrive Experience is and how it’s changed my life over the last five and a half years. I talk about a three-step system designed to boost energy, mental clarity, gut health, and overall wellness.

I’m offering TEN lucky followers a free three-day mini experience sample pack, and I encourage you to comment SAMPLE if you’re interested in trying it and experiencing the difference for yourself.#.
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#thriveexperience #freesample #sample
#DateNight…let the birthday celebrations continu #DateNight…let the birthday celebrations continue 🫶🏽💙🫶🏽 #HBDtome
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You didn't come this far to play small 🔥
Corporate. Wellness. Wealth
Helping ambitious women elevate every area of life
⬇️ more in link below

ATTN CORPORATE GIRLIES — this is our new anthem ATTN CORPORATE GIRLIES — this is our new anthem and I will not be taking questions. 👏🏽

Get your mind right before you walk into that office sis. Because you are not just an employee. You are a whole entrepreneur who happens to still have a day job — and there is a difference.

The corporate world needs us present. But our dreams need us building. And the beautiful thing? We’re doing both. So turn this up on the way in. Fix your crown in the rearview. Walk through those doors like the main character you absolutely are — because after hours? We’re building something that’s going to make the 9-to-5 optional.

Love yourself loud sis. In the parking lot. In the boardroom. And especially when you’re building a life nobody handed you.

Drop 💛 if you’re a corporate girlie who’s also out here building something on the side — I see you and I am you. Let’s connect.
.
.
.
.
#corporategirlie #9to5life #ilovemyloud #workfromhome #corporateentrepreneur
Where in the world is the time going 🤯😭 My Where in the world is the time going 🤯😭

My sweet JoJo is 10 today, and I am unwell! 

To the one that keeps us all on our toes, HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY JOJO! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
.
.
.
.
#hbd #happybirthday #birthdayboy #nephew
They’re still talking about the old me. That’s They’re still talking about the old me. That’s Cute.
She was just the trailer. 🖤
and we can’t let the day go by without wishing t and we can’t let the day go by without wishing the biggest HAPPY BIRTHDAY to our Maddox (aka MADDOG)!!!! 

I can’t believe you’re already 15! 🤯 😭

Hope you have the best day ever!! We will be celebrating soon!!!! #JCole 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!🎁🎉🎈 Love you!!
.
.
.
.
#happybirthday #nephew #hbd
Getting to shower these two yesterday was so extre Getting to shower these two yesterday was so extremely special to me! Baby Malakai will be here before we know it, and that baby is already so loved (and spoiled 😂). 

More pics coming soon! 😉
.
.
.
.
#babyshower #momtobe #newparents #thenextchapter
Real talk, from me to you: doing what’s right fo Real talk, from me to you: doing what’s right for your life will sometimes mean standing in a room full of people — completely alone. Do it anyway.

I know what it feels like to shrink. To keep a dream quiet because you already know how people are going to react. To say yes to everyone else and nothing to yourself. I lived there for a long time.

When I started building my health and wellness business I wasn’t met with applause. I was met with doubt, silence, and the kind of ‘support’ that comes with a side of skepticism. I almost let that be the reason I stopped.

But I kept going. And that business people quietly doubted? It pays me every single week. It built me a community of people who chose themselves too — who were standing alone in their own rooms before they found this. Now we stand together.

People pleasing is self-abandonment with a smile. And you have been abandoning yourself long enough.
You don’t need permission. You just need to decide that you matter enough to try.

Drop ALONE in my comments or DM me — I took the step nobody clapped for, and I’ll walk this road with you. 💙
.
.
.
.
.
#chooseyourself #peoplepleaser #selfabandonment #realtalk #standalone
“Scared money don’t make money. Scared decisio “Scared money don’t make money. Scared decisions don’t make change.” And I say that as someone who used to let fear run everything — my finances, my choices, my future.

I spent so long waiting for the perfect moment to start something different. Waiting until I had more money. More time. More confidence. More certainty. And while I was waiting, nothing changed. The bills didn’t wait. The years didn’t wait. Life didn’t wait. and the weight didn’t magically fall off 😂😂😂

The thing that finally shifted me wasn’t a magic moment. It was a decision. A decision to stop letting fear be the loudest voice in the room and start betting on myself for once.

I found a health and wellness business that let me start exactly where I was — no experience, no huge platform, no perfect plan. Just a system that works, products that actually changed how I feel every single day, and a team of people who showed up for me the way I now show up for others.

The people on my team were scared too. They overthought it too. They had the same lists of reasons why it wasn’t the right time. The only difference is they jumped anyway — and now they’re hitting bonuses, building income, and feeling better than they have in years.

If fear has been making your decisions, this is your sign to take it back. You deserve to find out what happens when you finally bet on yourself.

Drop LEAP in the comments or slide into my DMs and let’s talk about what this could look like for your life. I took the leap. I’ll help you take yours. 💚
.
.
.
.
.
#taketheleap #mindsetshift #womeninbusiness #financialfreedom #workfromhome
Manifesting the day we get to scream ‘WE DID IT! Manifesting the day we get to scream ‘WE DID IT!’ because we never gave up. 🖤

This is what building together looks like. Two women who decided that the life they wanted wasn’t going to build itself — so they showed up, stayed consistent, and refused to quit on each other or themselves.

That’s what this business is at its core. It’s not just about the income, the bonuses, or the free products — although all of that is very real. It’s about having somebody in your corner who genuinely wants to see you win. A team that celebrates your first sale like it’s their own. People who answer the phone, share the knowledge, and remind you why you started when the days get hard.

We are building something here that goes beyond a paycheck. We’re building health — real, physical, feel-it-in-your-body health. We’re building financial freedom for families who have never had it. We’re building a legacy that our spouses, kids, nieces, nephews, etc get to watch us create in real time.

If you’ve been on the sidelines watching and something in you keeps saying ‘I want that’ — that feeling is not an accident. That’s your sign.

We are actively looking for NEW people to add to this team. People who are hungry, coachable, and ready to finally bet on themselves. You don’t need experience. You just need to be willing to show up.

Drop 🖤 in the comments or DM us the word TEAM and let’s have a real conversation about what this could look like for your life.
.
.
.
.
.
#joinus #nwm #passiveincome #thriveexperience #teambelievenation
Happy Sunday Friends! It’s #SampleSunday I’m s Happy Sunday Friends! It’s #SampleSunday I’m sharing what the Thrive Experience is and how it’s changed my life over the last five and a half years. I talk about a three-step system designed to boost energy, mental clarity, gut health, and overall wellness.

I’m offering TEN lucky followers a free three-day mini experience sample pack, and I encourage you to comment SAMPLE if you’re interested in trying it and experiencing the difference for yourself.#.
.
.
.
.
#thriveexperience #freesample #sample
#DateNight…let the birthday celebrations continu #DateNight…let the birthday celebrations continue 🫶🏽💙🫶🏽 #HBDtome
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