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📍Louisville, KY
Corporate Baddie | Entrepreneur
Helping ambitious professionals take control of their health, build wealth & share the journey 👇🏾

My favorite notifications lately? THESE RIGHT HERE My favorite notifications lately? THESE RIGHT HERE. 😭👏🏽🖤

Listen, I can talk about my own wellness journey ALL DAY LONG, but when my phone starts lighting up with messages from customers sharing their experiences? THAT’S A WHOLE DIFFERENT KIND OF EXCITEMENT! 🔥

The nervous first-timers realizing the process wasn’t nearly as intimidating as they expected.

The customers celebrating their weight-loss milestones.

The messages about feeling better, having more energy, and noticing changes they’re genuinely excited about.

And yes…apparently some of y’all are going to need a new wardrobe. 😂🛍️

THIS is why I love what I do.

Not just sharing products, but being someone my customers can ask questions, lean on for accountability, and celebrate their wins with.

Because behind every one of these messages is a REAL person with REAL goals. And getting to cheer them on? That’s the good stuff.

Curious about my supplement and peptide journey or what my customers are sharing? 💌 Comment “READY” or send me a DM. I’m happy to share my experience, answer questions about the process, and help you identify what products would be best for YOU! 🫶🏾
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and I hate to burst your bubble, but my phone is N and I hate to burst your bubble, but my phone is NEVER dead….and I always carry a portable charger! 👊🏾
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#auntielife #auntielifeisthebestlife #foe #nephew #idontplayaboutmine
Justin: “Babe, you look really small today..” Me: Justin: “Babe, you look really small today..”

Me: “really? you think? 👀 Do I look ok?”

Justin: “You’ve always looked great, but you look really good! I’m proud of you!”

Me: “☺️😚 oh stooooop…..but no keep going!” ha!

LISTEN! If I don’t stick to my upgraded wellness routine for any other reason, I’m going to stick to it for my damn self-esteem and the renewed sense of confidence it has given me! 

Unless you’ve personally experienced it, you just won’t understand. But being a woman and turning 40 is NOT, I repeat, is NOT for the weak! Your body changes in ways you never even imagined, and with that comes being discouraged and extremely hard on yourself when the reflection in the mirror isn’t what you had been use to for the prior 39 years! 

So today, I’m celebrating the fact that I got out of my own way and made the decision to get back to ME!  Heck, ya’ll just might see me come out of retirement and sign up to run another marathon! 😂🎉 Who’s joining me?!? Any takers👀👀

Happy Monday Friends! Don’t forget to go be great today! 💪🏽
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#mondaymotivaton #weightlossjourney #womenover40 #peptidejourney
HOW ABOUT THEM CAAAAAATS!!! 💙😻 #BBN STAND UP!! 👏🏽 HOW ABOUT THEM CAAAAAATS!!! 💙😻

#BBN STAND UP!! 👏🏽
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#kentuckyfootball #secfootball #weareuk #kentuckywildcats
Don’t be like me and take a whole year to finally Don’t be like me and take a whole year to finally decide what’s best for you! Just do it! Lock in for 3 months and prepare to be amazing at how your body transforms from the inside out! 

I can share this with you because I lived it! Even though I regret waiting so long to start, I’m also just extremely thankful I FINALLY did! 

💙 16.8lbs down
💙 Mood improved
💙 Food noise gone - appetite controlled
💙 Better sleep
💙 Clean energy all day long
💙 Hair, Skin, Nails flourishing
💙 Down a pant, shirt and dress size
💙 Literally THRIVING 👏🏽

If you’re navigating weight changes, perimenopause, or just trying to feel like yourself again, I SEE YOU. ❤️

👇🏽 Comment “READY” or DM me if you’re curious about my personal journey, what I changed, and the questions I asked before getting started.

And FOLLOW along, because baby…we’re just getting started. 
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#GLP1Journey #WomenOver40Wellness #PerimenopauseJourney #WeightLossJourney LVRX
Every time someone asks me about my peptide journe Every time someone asks me about my peptide journey and says, “But I’m still on the fence…” 👀

My response? BABY, I LIVED ON THAT FENCE FOR ALMOST A YEAR! 😂👏🏽

I questioned everything. Overthought everything. And talked myself out of even exploring my options more times than I can count.

But here’s what I’ve learned and what I now tell everyone to else……Give yourself 3 MONTHS.

Not just 3 months on peptides. Three months of getting serious about YOU. LOCK IN. 🔒 Your nutrition. Your water. Your movement. Your consistency. And give yourself a real opportunity to see what changes.

Because 3 months are going to pass whether you do something differently or not. 👏🏽

I’m almost 17 pounds down, feeling more like myself again, and STILL working toward my goals! 🖤

And trust me…I’m glad I finally stopped letting fear make my decisions.

🔥 Curious about my peptide journey and what I’ve changed? Comment “READY” or DM me “READY” and I’ll share my experience and current wellness routine!

FOLLOW for more real-life wellness, perimenopause, and weight-loss journey updates from a woman navigating her 40s right along with you!

{My results are personal, not guaranteed. Peptide treatments aren’t appropriate for everyone and should be discussed with a qualified healthcare professional.}
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#GLP1Journey #PeptideJourney #PerimenopauseWeightLoss #WomenOver40Wellness #WeightLossJourney
Underestimate me….PLEASE!!! I love it when that ha Underestimate me….PLEASE!!! I love it when that happens! 👊🏾
Plot twist: the girl who said “ABSOLUTELY NOT” for Plot twist: the girl who said “ABSOLUTELY NOT” for almost a year…finally tried it. 😂🌶️

And if you know me, you know I researched, questioned, overthought and probably annoyed everybody with 947 questions first. 😂

But eventually I realized something: Being skeptical is fine. Staying uninformed because you’re skeptical is different.

So, after talking with my provider, I decided to try a medically supervised microdose as one part of a bigger wellness routine—nutrition, movement, hydration, supplementation and consistency included.

And 11 weeks later? 16 lbs down and, beyond the scale, I’m feeling more like myself again. 🙌🏾

Do I wish I had started sooner? Girl…YES.
But apparently I needed all 947 questions answered first.😂😂

If you’ve been watching from the sidelines because you have questions too, ASK THEM.

🌶️ Comment “PEPPER” and I’ll share more about my experience and what I changed in my overall wellness routine.

And FOLLOW if you’re navigating wellness, weight changes and all that comes with perimenopause after 40 right along with me. 🖤

(My experience is personal; results vary.)
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#GLP1Journey #WomenOver40Wellness #PerimenopauseWeightLoss #WeightLossJourney #MidlifeWellness
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Apparently I had my 40s ALL wrong. 😂👏🏽 I@really th Apparently I had my 40s ALL wrong. 😂👏🏽 I@really thought this was just…it.

The weight gain.
The inflammation.
The clothes fitting too tight.
The energy changes.
And looking in the mirror thinking, “Well damn…is this what we’re doing now?” 🥴😂

Then I decided I wasn’t spending the rest of my 40s simply accepting a version of myself I didn’t feel good in.

So I changed some things.
Got serious about my wellness.
Stayed consistent.
And stopped talking myself out of trying something different.

16 pounds later just over the last 11 weeks……And I’m not even finished.

This chapter isn’t about trying to look 25 again. It’s about becoming the healthiest, strongest, most confident version of ME at THIS age. And apparently……what I’m doing is working!! 

If you’re in your 40s thinking, “I just want to feel like myself again,” I got you!

👇🏽 Comment “READY” and I’ll share what I changed and what my current wellness routine looks like.

And FOLLOW because this little midlife plot twist is just getting started. 😂🖤
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Beauty, Health & Wellness · January 20, 2023

My Updated Natural Haircare Routine

Hey Friends! TGIF! We made it through yet another work week! Even though this was a short week due to the holiday on Monday (MLK Jr. Day), this week was still a beast to get through. Hopefully, everyone has some exciting plans for the weekend!

You Asked For It

A few years ago, I shared some natural haircare products that I was loving at the time. Well here we are a few years later, and I’m still on this journey. Back in 2017, I decided to go natural with my hair for the SECOND time. I had done it previously in 2014, but only lasted 2 years. I took a year in between to really pump myself up, and then I tried again.

I know many of you are probably thinking “what do you mean you’re natural?” When it comes to haircare, being natural means that you are embracing the natural state of your hair, by not using any chemicals on your hair. So everything I use on my hair is sulfate and paraben free, free of any other chemicals, and I do not use excessive heat. Most of the time, I “wash and go” with my hair. So for the last 5.5 years, I have been embracing my natural curl pattern……and ya’ll, these curls are TIGHTTTT!

Natural Life is NOT for Everyone

One thing that I learned very early on in this journey, is that being natural is A LOT of work, and it is NOT for the weak. It takes alot of time, patience, trial and error, and money to maintain this lifestyle! I say money because if you decide you want to keep up with your natural hair but realize that you cannot maintain it yourself, you will definitely pay a pretty penny when you find a natural hairstylist who will add you to their client list.

You will spend a lot of time and money in the beginning stages trying to figure out the best products for your hair specifically. What I have found is that what works for one person’s hair, may not necessarily work for another. So I spent the first year of my journey being a “product junkie” buying different brands and lines to see what I liked and what worked for my hair.

The Line-Up

Okay, now for what you all came here for today. So over the last 5.5 years, I have played with many different products. What I have learned is that my hair does not like routine. If I stick to a single brand or product, after a few weeks, my hair starts to have a mind of its own. My curls will not curl the way I want, my edges will not lay down the way I like, it’s not as shiny, its starts to frizz really bad. So what I’ve come up with is a product rotation that works for me. Every other week, I switch up the products I use.

Below is a complete list of every single product that I currently use each week, and every other week.

And in that Order

So now you are probably wondering what order to use these products. As I mentioned earlier, everyone’s hair and the journey is different. But here are the steps I take:

  1. Hair Oil – I am currently testing this method, so stay tuned for a full review on this in a month or two. But I started “hair oiling” about 3 weeks ago. I use THIS hair oil at night. I oil my entire scalp, and then work my way all the way down to the ends. I then put it in a bun, put on my satin bonnet, and go to bed. The next morning when I wake up, I then start my shampooing process. Stay tuned for an update on this
  2. Scalp Massage – After applying hair oil, I do a deep scalp massage for about 15-20min. After waking up the next day, before washing my hair, I massage my scalp for another 10min. THIS is the scalp massager I use.
  3. Reset Rinse – Before I start shampooing, I first do a reset on my scalp with a rinse that is made of rice water complex. Rice water is really good for stimulating growth. I put the rinse on and let it sit for about 5-7 minutes before washing out. I’ve been using THIS reset rinse for the last several months, and I’m really happy with the results thus far
  4. Shampoo – I am currently alternating between two different shampoos (Hydrating one and Detangling one). When it comes to shampoo, clarifying or hydrating, I only use shampoo once a week on my hair. No matter the brand, no matter the amount, shampoo seems to strip and dry out my hair. Therefore, I shampoo once a week, and the other days, I co-wash with one of the above conditioners. Its amazing how much better my hair feels, and how hydrated my curls stay.
  5. Conditioners – After shampooing and/or co-washing, I then follow with an intensive conditioner. My hair just soaks everything up, and quick. So I tend to use a conditioner that is really thick and has a lot of slip. When I use my conditioner, that’s also when I like to detangle. I start with finger detangling, and then use a wide tooth comb and start at the ends and work my way up. These are the two I use: Conditioner 1, and Conditioner 2.
  6. Deep Conditioner – I only deep condition once a month. THIS deep conditioner, plastic cap, and 20-30min under a hooded dryer, and your hair will feel amazing!
  7. Stylers – I know there are tons of fancy curl creams out there on the market, but for my hair, simplicity is key. To style my hair, I only use a leave-in conditioner, a hair oil, and a gel for my edges and to keep my curls from frizzing.

A Few Tips

A couple of things to remember

  • You should always sleep with a satin bonnet/cap or a satin pillow. Or you can be extra like me and do both
  • Take care of your edges, morning and night! This hair potion for your edges is amazing!
  • Alternate hairstyles when you can. Take it from me; wearing a ponytail or bun, and wearing it in the exact same spot each day for extended periods of time will weaken your strands. So as you can see below, I typically alternate between wearing my hair naturally curly, straight or in knotless braids for an easy protective style.
  • Definitely incorporate a liquid collagen into your daily routine if you haven’t already. Collagen is necessary for all of us, especially as we get older. We stop producing as much collagen in our late 20s, so we have to replenish on our own. My award-winning liquid collagen has been amazing in helping to improve not only my hair, but my skin and my nails. My recent increase in length and thickness has been greatly due to my collagen. Check it out HERE!

As I mentioned earlier, being natural is a process. It’s a process of patience, trial and error, and then constantly training your hair. If you can stick with it, the reward is strong, full, long, shiny, healthy hair. Despite the hard work, and the moments I’ve wanted to throw in the towel, going natural has been one of the best decisions for me.

I’ve had so many people ask me about my hair routine over the last few weeks, so I thought this would be a fun post to share. Hopefully I introduced you to some new products and a new process if you are stumped on your journey.

Best of luck friends!

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My favorite notifications lately? THESE RIGHT HERE My favorite notifications lately? THESE RIGHT HERE. 😭👏🏽🖤

Listen, I can talk about my own wellness journey ALL DAY LONG, but when my phone starts lighting up with messages from customers sharing their experiences? THAT’S A WHOLE DIFFERENT KIND OF EXCITEMENT! 🔥

The nervous first-timers realizing the process wasn’t nearly as intimidating as they expected.

The customers celebrating their weight-loss milestones.

The messages about feeling better, having more energy, and noticing changes they’re genuinely excited about.

And yes…apparently some of y’all are going to need a new wardrobe. 😂🛍️

THIS is why I love what I do.

Not just sharing products, but being someone my customers can ask questions, lean on for accountability, and celebrate their wins with.

Because behind every one of these messages is a REAL person with REAL goals. And getting to cheer them on? That’s the good stuff.

Curious about my supplement and peptide journey or what my customers are sharing? 💌 Comment “READY” or send me a DM. I’m happy to share my experience, answer questions about the process, and help you identify what products would be best for YOU! 🫶🏾
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Justin: “Babe, you look really small today..” Me: Justin: “Babe, you look really small today..”

Me: “really? you think? 👀 Do I look ok?”

Justin: “You’ve always looked great, but you look really good! I’m proud of you!”

Me: “☺️😚 oh stooooop…..but no keep going!” ha!

LISTEN! If I don’t stick to my upgraded wellness routine for any other reason, I’m going to stick to it for my damn self-esteem and the renewed sense of confidence it has given me! 

Unless you’ve personally experienced it, you just won’t understand. But being a woman and turning 40 is NOT, I repeat, is NOT for the weak! Your body changes in ways you never even imagined, and with that comes being discouraged and extremely hard on yourself when the reflection in the mirror isn’t what you had been use to for the prior 39 years! 

So today, I’m celebrating the fact that I got out of my own way and made the decision to get back to ME!  Heck, ya’ll just might see me come out of retirement and sign up to run another marathon! 😂🎉 Who’s joining me?!? Any takers👀👀

Happy Monday Friends! Don’t forget to go be great today! 💪🏽
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#mondaymotivaton #weightlossjourney #womenover40 #peptidejourney
HOW ABOUT THEM CAAAAAATS!!! 💙😻 #BBN STAND UP!! 👏🏽 HOW ABOUT THEM CAAAAAATS!!! 💙😻

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#kentuckyfootball #secfootball #weareuk #kentuckywildcats
Don’t be like me and take a whole year to finally Don’t be like me and take a whole year to finally decide what’s best for you! Just do it! Lock in for 3 months and prepare to be amazing at how your body transforms from the inside out! 

I can share this with you because I lived it! Even though I regret waiting so long to start, I’m also just extremely thankful I FINALLY did! 

💙 16.8lbs down
💙 Mood improved
💙 Food noise gone - appetite controlled
💙 Better sleep
💙 Clean energy all day long
💙 Hair, Skin, Nails flourishing
💙 Down a pant, shirt and dress size
💙 Literally THRIVING 👏🏽

If you’re navigating weight changes, perimenopause, or just trying to feel like yourself again, I SEE YOU. ❤️

👇🏽 Comment “READY” or DM me if you’re curious about my personal journey, what I changed, and the questions I asked before getting started.

And FOLLOW along, because baby…we’re just getting started. 
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#GLP1Journey #WomenOver40Wellness #PerimenopauseJourney #WeightLossJourney LVRX
Every time someone asks me about my peptide journe Every time someone asks me about my peptide journey and says, “But I’m still on the fence…” 👀

My response? BABY, I LIVED ON THAT FENCE FOR ALMOST A YEAR! 😂👏🏽

I questioned everything. Overthought everything. And talked myself out of even exploring my options more times than I can count.

But here’s what I’ve learned and what I now tell everyone to else……Give yourself 3 MONTHS.

Not just 3 months on peptides. Three months of getting serious about YOU. LOCK IN. 🔒 Your nutrition. Your water. Your movement. Your consistency. And give yourself a real opportunity to see what changes.

Because 3 months are going to pass whether you do something differently or not. 👏🏽

I’m almost 17 pounds down, feeling more like myself again, and STILL working toward my goals! 🖤

And trust me…I’m glad I finally stopped letting fear make my decisions.

🔥 Curious about my peptide journey and what I’ve changed? Comment “READY” or DM me “READY” and I’ll share my experience and current wellness routine!

FOLLOW for more real-life wellness, perimenopause, and weight-loss journey updates from a woman navigating her 40s right along with you!

{My results are personal, not guaranteed. Peptide treatments aren’t appropriate for everyone and should be discussed with a qualified healthcare professional.}
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#GLP1Journey #PeptideJourney #PerimenopauseWeightLoss #WomenOver40Wellness #WeightLossJourney
Underestimate me….PLEASE!!! I love it when that ha Underestimate me….PLEASE!!! I love it when that happens! 👊🏾
Plot twist: the girl who said “ABSOLUTELY NOT” for Plot twist: the girl who said “ABSOLUTELY NOT” for almost a year…finally tried it. 😂🌶️

And if you know me, you know I researched, questioned, overthought and probably annoyed everybody with 947 questions first. 😂

But eventually I realized something: Being skeptical is fine. Staying uninformed because you’re skeptical is different.

So, after talking with my provider, I decided to try a medically supervised microdose as one part of a bigger wellness routine—nutrition, movement, hydration, supplementation and consistency included.

And 11 weeks later? 16 lbs down and, beyond the scale, I’m feeling more like myself again. 🙌🏾

Do I wish I had started sooner? Girl…YES.
But apparently I needed all 947 questions answered first.😂😂

If you’ve been watching from the sidelines because you have questions too, ASK THEM.

🌶️ Comment “PEPPER” and I’ll share more about my experience and what I changed in my overall wellness routine.

And FOLLOW if you’re navigating wellness, weight changes and all that comes with perimenopause after 40 right along with me. 🖤

(My experience is personal; results vary.)
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#GLP1Journey #WomenOver40Wellness #PerimenopauseWeightLoss #WeightLossJourney #MidlifeWellness
HOW ABOUT THEM CATS!!!! 😻💙 UK 35 - SC 34 . . . #b HOW ABOUT THEM CATS!!!! 😻💙 
UK 35 - SC 34
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#bbn #weareuk #ukfootball #universityofkentuckyfootball #uk
Apparently I had my 40s ALL wrong. 😂👏🏽 I@really th Apparently I had my 40s ALL wrong. 😂👏🏽 I@really thought this was just…it.

The weight gain.
The inflammation.
The clothes fitting too tight.
The energy changes.
And looking in the mirror thinking, “Well damn…is this what we’re doing now?” 🥴😂

Then I decided I wasn’t spending the rest of my 40s simply accepting a version of myself I didn’t feel good in.

So I changed some things.
Got serious about my wellness.
Stayed consistent.
And stopped talking myself out of trying something different.

16 pounds later just over the last 11 weeks……And I’m not even finished.

This chapter isn’t about trying to look 25 again. It’s about becoming the healthiest, strongest, most confident version of ME at THIS age. And apparently……what I’m doing is working!! 

If you’re in your 40s thinking, “I just want to feel like myself again,” I got you!

👇🏽 Comment “READY” and I’ll share what I changed and what my current wellness routine looks like.

And FOLLOW because this little midlife plot twist is just getting started. 😂🖤
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#WomenOver40 #PerimenopauseJourney #WomenOver40Wellness #MidlifeWellness #WeightLossJourney
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My favorite notifications lately? THESE RIGHT HERE My favorite notifications lately? THESE RIGHT HERE. 😭👏🏽🖤

Listen, I can talk about my own wellness journey ALL DAY LONG, but when my phone starts lighting up with messages from customers sharing their experiences? THAT’S A WHOLE DIFFERENT KIND OF EXCITEMENT! 🔥

The nervous first-timers realizing the process wasn’t nearly as intimidating as they expected.

The customers celebrating their weight-loss milestones.

The messages about feeling better, having more energy, and noticing changes they’re genuinely excited about.

And yes…apparently some of y’all are going to need a new wardrobe. 😂🛍️

THIS is why I love what I do.

Not just sharing products, but being someone my customers can ask questions, lean on for accountability, and celebrate their wins with.

Because behind every one of these messages is a REAL person with REAL goals. And getting to cheer them on? That’s the good stuff.

Curious about my supplement and peptide journey or what my customers are sharing? 💌 Comment “READY” or send me a DM. I’m happy to share my experience, answer questions about the process, and help you identify what products would be best for YOU! 🫶🏾
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#PeptideJourney #GLP1Journey #WomenOver40Wellness #WeightLossJourney #MidlifeWellness
and I hate to burst your bubble, but my phone is N and I hate to burst your bubble, but my phone is NEVER dead….and I always carry a portable charger! 👊🏾
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#auntielife #auntielifeisthebestlife #foe #nephew #idontplayaboutmine
Justin: “Babe, you look really small today..” Me: Justin: “Babe, you look really small today..”

Me: “really? you think? 👀 Do I look ok?”

Justin: “You’ve always looked great, but you look really good! I’m proud of you!”

Me: “☺️😚 oh stooooop…..but no keep going!” ha!

LISTEN! If I don’t stick to my upgraded wellness routine for any other reason, I’m going to stick to it for my damn self-esteem and the renewed sense of confidence it has given me! 

Unless you’ve personally experienced it, you just won’t understand. But being a woman and turning 40 is NOT, I repeat, is NOT for the weak! Your body changes in ways you never even imagined, and with that comes being discouraged and extremely hard on yourself when the reflection in the mirror isn’t what you had been use to for the prior 39 years! 

So today, I’m celebrating the fact that I got out of my own way and made the decision to get back to ME!  Heck, ya’ll just might see me come out of retirement and sign up to run another marathon! 😂🎉 Who’s joining me?!? Any takers👀👀

Happy Monday Friends! Don’t forget to go be great today! 💪🏽
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#mondaymotivaton #weightlossjourney #womenover40 #peptidejourney
HOW ABOUT THEM CAAAAAATS!!! 💙😻 #BBN STAND UP!! 👏🏽 HOW ABOUT THEM CAAAAAATS!!! 💙😻

#BBN STAND UP!! 👏🏽
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#kentuckyfootball #secfootball #weareuk #kentuckywildcats
Don’t be like me and take a whole year to finally Don’t be like me and take a whole year to finally decide what’s best for you! Just do it! Lock in for 3 months and prepare to be amazing at how your body transforms from the inside out! 

I can share this with you because I lived it! Even though I regret waiting so long to start, I’m also just extremely thankful I FINALLY did! 

💙 16.8lbs down
💙 Mood improved
💙 Food noise gone - appetite controlled
💙 Better sleep
💙 Clean energy all day long
💙 Hair, Skin, Nails flourishing
💙 Down a pant, shirt and dress size
💙 Literally THRIVING 👏🏽

If you’re navigating weight changes, perimenopause, or just trying to feel like yourself again, I SEE YOU. ❤️

👇🏽 Comment “READY” or DM me if you’re curious about my personal journey, what I changed, and the questions I asked before getting started.

And FOLLOW along, because baby…we’re just getting started. 
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Every time someone asks me about my peptide journe Every time someone asks me about my peptide journey and says, “But I’m still on the fence…” 👀

My response? BABY, I LIVED ON THAT FENCE FOR ALMOST A YEAR! 😂👏🏽

I questioned everything. Overthought everything. And talked myself out of even exploring my options more times than I can count.

But here’s what I’ve learned and what I now tell everyone to else……Give yourself 3 MONTHS.

Not just 3 months on peptides. Three months of getting serious about YOU. LOCK IN. 🔒 Your nutrition. Your water. Your movement. Your consistency. And give yourself a real opportunity to see what changes.

Because 3 months are going to pass whether you do something differently or not. 👏🏽

I’m almost 17 pounds down, feeling more like myself again, and STILL working toward my goals! 🖤

And trust me…I’m glad I finally stopped letting fear make my decisions.

🔥 Curious about my peptide journey and what I’ve changed? Comment “READY” or DM me “READY” and I’ll share my experience and current wellness routine!

FOLLOW for more real-life wellness, perimenopause, and weight-loss journey updates from a woman navigating her 40s right along with you!

{My results are personal, not guaranteed. Peptide treatments aren’t appropriate for everyone and should be discussed with a qualified healthcare professional.}
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Plot twist: the girl who said “ABSOLUTELY NOT” for Plot twist: the girl who said “ABSOLUTELY NOT” for almost a year…finally tried it. 😂🌶️

And if you know me, you know I researched, questioned, overthought and probably annoyed everybody with 947 questions first. 😂

But eventually I realized something: Being skeptical is fine. Staying uninformed because you’re skeptical is different.

So, after talking with my provider, I decided to try a medically supervised microdose as one part of a bigger wellness routine—nutrition, movement, hydration, supplementation and consistency included.

And 11 weeks later? 16 lbs down and, beyond the scale, I’m feeling more like myself again. 🙌🏾

Do I wish I had started sooner? Girl…YES.
But apparently I needed all 947 questions answered first.😂😂

If you’ve been watching from the sidelines because you have questions too, ASK THEM.

🌶️ Comment “PEPPER” and I’ll share more about my experience and what I changed in my overall wellness routine.

And FOLLOW if you’re navigating wellness, weight changes and all that comes with perimenopause after 40 right along with me. 🖤

(My experience is personal; results vary.)
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Apparently I had my 40s ALL wrong. 😂👏🏽 I@really th Apparently I had my 40s ALL wrong. 😂👏🏽 I@really thought this was just…it.

The weight gain.
The inflammation.
The clothes fitting too tight.
The energy changes.
And looking in the mirror thinking, “Well damn…is this what we’re doing now?” 🥴😂

Then I decided I wasn’t spending the rest of my 40s simply accepting a version of myself I didn’t feel good in.

So I changed some things.
Got serious about my wellness.
Stayed consistent.
And stopped talking myself out of trying something different.

16 pounds later just over the last 11 weeks……And I’m not even finished.

This chapter isn’t about trying to look 25 again. It’s about becoming the healthiest, strongest, most confident version of ME at THIS age. And apparently……what I’m doing is working!! 

If you’re in your 40s thinking, “I just want to feel like myself again,” I got you!

👇🏽 Comment “READY” and I’ll share what I changed and what my current wellness routine looks like.

And FOLLOW because this little midlife plot twist is just getting started. 😂🖤
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