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💼 Corporate → Creator
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📈 Helping women monetize social media
💰 Build your brand. Get paid. ⬇️

Every time someone joins me in this business, I’ Every time someone joins me in this business, I’m reminded how many people are just sitting on the sidelines thinking about it…

Researching it.
Watching it.
Talking themselves in and out of it.

Meanwhile someone else just said yes and said “I’ll figure it out along the way, I can’t afford to wait any longer!”

This could absolutely be you. But some of you are still second guessing yourself.

If you’ve been saying you want extra income, more flexibility, or something of your own, this is your sign to stop watching from the sidelines.

Send me a message that says MORE and I’ll share exactly how this works and what it looks like to get started. (BONUS: Get started for $100 off TODAY ONLY)

Let’s build something real. 🦋
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#sidehustle
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One thing I’ve learned in every room I’ve walk One thing I’ve learned in every room I’ve walked into — corporate boardrooms, business events, and entrepreneurial spaces — is this:

Secure women don’t compete with each other.

They collaborate.
They support.
They remind other women that there’s room at the table.

Because real power isn’t about being the only woman in the room, or the only one winning.

It’s about making sure the door stays open for the next one walking in.

The women I respect the most are the ones who celebrate other women’s wins, share opportunities, and create environments where we all grow.

That’s the kind of energy I choose to move with.

And if you’re building your career, your confidence, or even a business of your own — find women who clap when you win……..Those are your people.

If you believe women should build together instead of compete, drop a 💙 in the comments.

And if you’re a woman who’s focused on growth, leadership, multiple income streams, and lifting others along the way — follow me and let’s chat! 
You’re in the right room.
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#WomenSupportingWomen
#WomenWithVision
#WomenInLeadership
#LevelUpSeason
#BuildTogether
You don’t have to quit your 9–5 to build somet You don’t have to quit your 9–5 to build something bigger.

Let me say that again for the woman in the back:

You do NOT have to blow up your stability to create additional income.

I’m building while employed.
I’m earning while leading.
I’m growing while managing a full calendar.

The difference?

I stopped waiting for the “perfect time.”
I stopped overthinking.
I started using 1–2 focused hours a day with a real plan.

No dramatic exits.
No reckless decisions.
Just strategy, discipline, and mentorship.

If you’re ambitious but practical…
Hungry but calculated…
Driven but not delusional…

You’re my kind of woman. You don’t need a resignation letter. You need a blueprint.

If you’re ready to build BEFORE you leap…Comment or DM me “BUILD” and I’ll send you exactly how to start while keeping your 9–5.

No hype.
No pressure.
Just structure and strategy
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#CorporateToEntrepreneur
#SideHustleWomen
#MultipleStreamsOfIncome
#WomenBuildingWealth
#LevelUpSeason
Can we be honest for a second?

Most people aren’t out here trying to be millionaires overnight.

Most just want:

• A little breathing room
• An extra $1–3K a month
• To stop stressing every time a bill hits
• To take a trip without putting it on a credit card
• To not depend on one paycheck forever

That’s it.

I talk to so many women and men who are doing everything “right.”

Good jobs. Degrees. Promotions.

And still feel like one unexpected expense could throw everything off.

That’s just flat out exhausting, and At some point you have to ask yourself:

Do I just want more income… Or am I willing to build more income? There’s a difference.

This business I’m building, it isn’t about quitting your job. It’s not about becoming someone you’re not. It’s not about spamming your friends.

It’s about building a second stream - and doing so intentionally.

Slow.
Simple.
Sustainable.

No hype.
No pressure.

Just an option.

If you’ve been quietly thinking, “I need something more…”

Comment below or message me the word MORE!

Let’s talk, and plan out how we are going to create your extra breathing room! 💰
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#LevelUpSeason
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There’s something powerful about ending a month There’s something powerful about ending a month in peace.

No chaos.
No scrambling.
No desperation energy.

Just clarity. Gratitude. Lessons learned.

And then waking up to a brand new month with a clean slate and bigger vision.

That’s the shift.

Because the goal isn’t just to make money.
It’s to build consistency.
It’s to build discipline.
It’s to build a life that doesn’t feel rushed or reactive.

A peaceful month-end means:
✔️ systems are working
✔️ effort was consistent
✔️ growth is compounding
✔️ you’re not chasing… you’re building

If this month didn’t go how you wanted — good.

Now you know what to adjust.

New month.
New focus.
New income goals.
New discipline.

And if you’re serious about building something more intentional this month — I’m building too.

If you’re stepping into this new month with bigger goals and sharper focus…

Comment “RESET” below or DM me “LEVEL UP” and let’s talk strategy.

No more drifting. We’re moving with intention.
And I’m build g 5 NEW teams this month, and I would love for you to be one of them! 💙
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And it was soooooo good seeing my girl @weballard.01 🫶🏽 Your biscuits & gravy were a hit!! 

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Some conversations don’t happen in rooms you’r Some conversations don’t happen in rooms you’re in…
and honestly, that’s your protection — not your problem.

Growth will expose things.
Success will shift relationships.
And elevation will make some people uncomfortable.

But one thing about me…
I’m too focused on purpose, peace, and building the life I prayed for to entertain distractions.

I don’t argue.
I don’t chase explanations.
I don’t shrink to make others comfortable.

I just keep building, keep glowing, and keep walking in rooms that were designed for me.

And if you’re in a season where you’re protecting your energy, leveling up, and choosing alignment over approval — I see you.

Because elevation requires boundaries. Always.

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The biggest shift in my life didn’t start with m The biggest shift in my life didn’t start with money, opportunities, or even confidence…

It started with belief.

Belief that I could build more than what I saw in front of me.
Belief that corporate success and personal freedom didn’t have to compete.
Belief that ordinary women can create extraordinary lives when they stop waiting and start trusting themselves.

And here’s what I know for sure:

Your next level isn’t blocked by your circumstances — it’s unlocked by what you believe is possible for you.

So if you’ve been feeling the pull for more…
more growth
more confidence
more income streams
more purpose

just know this might be your sign.

✨ You don’t need permission.
✨ You don’t need perfection.
✨ You just need belief + action.

If this spoke to you, drop a 💙 in the comments or send me a DM that says “MORE” and I’ll connect with you personally.

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Sunday self-care isn’t just bubble baths and can Sunday self-care isn’t just bubble baths and candles over here… it’s a consistent routine.

Because if you’ve been watching my hair glow up, just know it didn’t happen by accident.

It came from:
✔️ nourishing my body from the inside FIRST
✔️ building a consistent scalp AND hair strand routine
✔️ prioritizing hydration + strengthening from root to tip
✔️ staying committed even when results weren’t immediate

And THIS is the routine that has my hair growing longer, thicker, and shinier than it’s been in years.

The biggest lesson?
Healthy hair isn’t one product — it’s a system and routine.

If you’re tired of breakage, thinning, dryness, or slow growth… this is your reminder that your glow up is possible too.

Comment “HAIR” and I’ll personally send you my full inside-out hair growth lineup + how to use it step-by-step.

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Ok soooo listen… Ive been a little MIA the last Ok soooo listen… Ive been a little MIA the last couple or days because, whatever nasty gunk has been going around, tried to take your girl OUT 😩🤧 So resting, hydrating, and laying low was the only thing on my agenda.

But THIS morning? I woke up to something that instantly made me smile…

My DMs and comments FULL of questions about my hair glow up 👀✨

And I get it — because this isn’t just length.
It’s thickness. It’s shine. It’s strength. It’s HEALTH.

What most people don’t realize is my hair journey didn’t start with hair goals…
it started with focusing on my overall wellness from the inside out.

And the glow up?
It followed. 💁🏽‍♀️

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Beauty & Fashion · August 22, 2017

The Longest Lasting Lipstick x LipSense + a GIVEAWAY!!!

Hey ya’ll! Chances are, if you’re reading this, you’ve heard of LipSense. If you’re like me, you might have friends selling it (holla to my friends who are selling LipSense as a side hustle and absolutely rocking it). You might have even seen bloggers paid to review LipSense, or bloggers who got free product in exchange for a review. Well if you are looking for a fluffy review that has nothing but amazing things to say about the product and not one single downside, well then you may want to exit now.  My best friend Hailey is a new distributor and I decided to support her new business by spending my hard earned coin and purchasing a complete lip kit to start my LipSense journey. So this review will be as real as it gets.  If you’re looking for real, then keep on reading!

Needless to say, LipSense is everywhere. Like a lot of people, I was highly curious. I wanted to see if the claims were true. So I went ahead and decided to try the product for myself! I went ahead and purchased two colors, the gloss, and the Oops Remover. AGAIN, Nobody is paying me a single cent or giving me anything in exchange for this post. These are just my personal thoughts and experiences. So here we go!

 

What the heck is LipSense?
LipSense is a liquid lipstick, and the biggest new MLM phenomenon. The main selling points that distinguish it from other lipsticks is that it’s highly durable – lasting anywhere between 4-18 hours and staying on through eating, drinking, kissing, exercising, swimming, etc.  The standard prices are $25 for each color, plus you need a tube of $20 gloss, and they also have a $10 lipstick remover. All of the three products I just mentioned is what you will get in your initial starter kit. (retail price $55)

Benefits of LipSense
  • Long lasting lipstick color that can last up to 18 hours (last times vary per person)
  • Reconditions your lips by exfoliation
  • Waterproof
  • Smudge proof
  • Budge proof
  • Vegan
  • GMO free
  • Wax free
  • Lead free
  • Gluten free
Can you really wear it all day and it not come off?
Yup. When I drink something, there’s no lipstick residue on my cup. The only residue I find is from the gloss, not the actual lip color. When I spend hours outside in the hot sun, my LipSense isn’t smeared or runny.
All those videos of your LipSense friends running their fingers across their lips and showing the camera that nothing came off are real my friends. Sometimes, if you’ve just barely put on the gloss, it comes off a little, but the gloss is mostly shea butter, so that’s understandable.
Overall, I’ve been highly impressed with the staying power of LipSense

 

DOES IT REALLY LAST 18 HOURS?
Umm….that’s still questionable and here is why. For me personally, the longest I have had it on is about 10 full hours. Mainly that is because I can’t stand to have makeup on any longer than that, but also that’s usually when the look of “wear” starts to settle in on most of my products, including the lips. Most distributors will even be very honest with you and tell you up front that for it last up to 18 hours is a bit of a stretch. But again, as I mentioned above, wear time varies per person.  But lets all think about it for a minute…….why in the world would you even want to have lipstick on for that long? haha!  Mine typically starts to wear off at my waterline first (your waterline is where the inside of your mouth meets your lips). But the waterline is also the hardest place to retain color pigment.
But the thing is – I very rarely need more than 8-9 hours of coverage in a row. Count how many hours you’d like your makeup to stay on perfectly for. Chances are it’s not more than 8-9. And I sincerely hope you don’t require camera-ready lipstick for 18 hours anyways. If you do need more than the typical 8-9 hours, you can add one more quick layer at hour 9 and be good for another few hours.
Technically the LipSense claim is that it lasts up to 18 hours, so they’re right. I’m sure if you never talked or ate or moved that day, it would stay on perfectly for 18 hours. Personally mine lasts 10 hours perfectly, but the bottom line is this: Yes, it really does last all day long. It’s nice to put it on in the morning and not have to worry about it for the rest of the day until I get home from work and remove all of my make-up.
DOES IT WRECK YOUR LIPS?
This was my biggest concern. A lot of lipsticks leave my lips feeling chapped and rough. I thought if there was a lipstick that’s so powerful it holds color all day long it MUST wreak havoc on your lips. For me, I wouldn’t say its totally drying on my lips while wearing it, but once I remove, I definitely have to use some type of lip scrub or exfoliate followed by a lip conditioner to moisturize my lips.  (If you’re looking for a good lip conditioner or moisturizer, check out my Beautycounter Peppermint Lip Conditioner HERE)

 

IS IT REALLY ONE OF A KIND?
No. This is where marketing from SeneGence comes in.  There are a lot of liquid lipsticks on the market. A lot of them last a really long time. A lot of them are smudge proof and kiss proof and everything proof. A lot of them are extremely moisturizing. Almost all of them cost less than LipSense.  HOWEVER, I do think LipSense has a larger color selection than most, as well as many highly universal shades. This is one company that I think focuses on formulating shades that are flattering to all skintones, and as a brown girl, this is very refreshing. Also, with LipSense, you can buy one color and wear it matte or glossy without having to purchase two separate colors. But with most other companies, they do not even make the same two shades in both a gloss and matte. You usually are stuck with trying to decide between another color. With LipSense, they offer both a gloss and a matte sealant for your colors. The choice is yours! 🙂

 

DRUM ROLL: Is LipSense worth the price tag?
It depends. The product is great, there is no denying that. It’s long-lasting, it’s high quality, it’s moisturizing while wearing. The colors are varied and fun. I like that there are a LOT of pictures available of different people wearing any given color, so you can see how it might look on your skin tone. You can also get samples from your distributor to see how certain colors look on you.  If you are someone who just likes to wear lipstick or a splash of color on your lips once every “eclipse” (haha get it……given what happened yesterday! I know, super corny but I couldn’t resist), then LipSense or any quality lipstick may not be for you given the return on investment.  But if you are a make-up lover like me, you like wearing a different shade of lip color depending on what you’re wearing; Or even if you find a staple color that you absolutely love and will wear it every day, then I say HECK YEAH! What are you waiting for?  Contact my girl Hailey TODAY and order you some LipSense!
Oh, and a side note: I personally do not think the lipstick remover is necessary. Luckily I’ve had some really awesome LipSense distributor friends be very honest about this fact, and even tell me about a Neutrogena bar that does the same thing. If you want to try out LipSense, maybe get a bold color, a more subtle color, and a gloss to start.
Best of all – I personally like LipSense because buying it means supporting people I care about. Lots of my friends selling LipSense are moms selling lipstick as a side hustle, and I am all about women supporting women in their personal and business endeavors. These women have been supporting my blog(s) for years, so I’m happy to support them – and get awesome lipstick while I’m at it.

Ready to Shop? Contact Hailey Haskins at (hailey.haskins3@gmail.com)

 

GIVEAWAY DETAILS

Today LipSense is launching their new ShadowSense line.  Thats right, its eye shadow that claims to be smudge proof, waterproof, and lasts all day long.  I just ordered three to try out myself, and I can’t wait.  So for one one my lucky readers, I will be giving one away.  The winner will be able to pick the color of their choice (18 colors to choose from) and I will get it shipped out to you directly.  See below details to enter. The winner will be drawn and announced on Sunday, August 27th at 8pm EST.  Good Luck!

 

CLICK THE LINK BELOW TO ENTER!!!!!

 

ShadowSense Giveaway! Win a FREE shadow color of your choice!

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  1. Shana says

    August 22, 2017 at 6:55 pm

    I love my lipsense. It tooks oem experimenting to get a perfect color, but I love it.

    Reply
  2. DBisch says

    August 22, 2017 at 7:25 pm

    I’ve only tried lipsense twice and found it only lasts about 5 hours. That means reapply at lunch, which isn’t terrible, but I was hoping for more. Giving it another go trying some tips for wear.

    Reply
    • Candace | The Big Blue Debutante says

      August 24, 2017 at 12:30 pm

      Yes, wear times definitely vary on people! What colors did you try? I initially tried the nude and beige champagne with my starter kit

      Reply
  3. Brittany Cheatham says

    August 22, 2017 at 8:45 pm

    Yay Make-up! Im anxious to see how Shadowsense works out! Be sure to let me know when you are wearing it! : )

    Reply
    • Candace | The Big Blue Debutante says

      August 24, 2017 at 12:31 pm

      ok course!!! you’ll be the first to know! 🙂

      Reply
  4. melly rodriguez says

    August 23, 2017 at 1:00 pm

    very cool

    Reply
  5. Jeanne Coulombe says

    August 25, 2017 at 8:36 am

    Awesome it’s hard to find good waterproof makeup.

    Reply
    • Candace | The Big Blue Debutante says

      August 25, 2017 at 10:29 am

      It sure is! I’ll pay a little more for make-up that has staying power! Who wants to be reapplying all day!

      Thanks for stopping by!

      Reply
  6. poimatcha says

    August 26, 2017 at 1:22 am

    wow would be interested to try this!

    Reply
  7. Pierre-Yves Nechet says

    August 26, 2017 at 11:52 am

    My wife loves that ! Good tips !

    Reply
  8. April Bentley says

    August 26, 2017 at 3:11 pm

    Such a great new product!

    Reply
  9. Dynal Roberson says

    August 26, 2017 at 6:21 pm

    Great colors, so hard to choose just one!

    Reply

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Every time someone joins me in this business, I’ Every time someone joins me in this business, I’m reminded how many people are just sitting on the sidelines thinking about it…

Researching it.
Watching it.
Talking themselves in and out of it.

Meanwhile someone else just said yes and said “I’ll figure it out along the way, I can’t afford to wait any longer!”

This could absolutely be you. But some of you are still second guessing yourself.

If you’ve been saying you want extra income, more flexibility, or something of your own, this is your sign to stop watching from the sidelines.

Send me a message that says MORE and I’ll share exactly how this works and what it looks like to get started. (BONUS: Get started for $100 off TODAY ONLY)

Let’s build something real. 🦋
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#thriveexperience
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#entrepreneurmindset
One thing I’ve learned in every room I’ve walk One thing I’ve learned in every room I’ve walked into — corporate boardrooms, business events, and entrepreneurial spaces — is this:

Secure women don’t compete with each other.

They collaborate.
They support.
They remind other women that there’s room at the table.

Because real power isn’t about being the only woman in the room, or the only one winning.

It’s about making sure the door stays open for the next one walking in.

The women I respect the most are the ones who celebrate other women’s wins, share opportunities, and create environments where we all grow.

That’s the kind of energy I choose to move with.

And if you’re building your career, your confidence, or even a business of your own — find women who clap when you win……..Those are your people.

If you believe women should build together instead of compete, drop a 💙 in the comments.

And if you’re a woman who’s focused on growth, leadership, multiple income streams, and lifting others along the way — follow me and let’s chat! 
You’re in the right room.
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You don’t have to quit your 9–5 to build somet You don’t have to quit your 9–5 to build something bigger.

Let me say that again for the woman in the back:

You do NOT have to blow up your stability to create additional income.

I’m building while employed.
I’m earning while leading.
I’m growing while managing a full calendar.

The difference?

I stopped waiting for the “perfect time.”
I stopped overthinking.
I started using 1–2 focused hours a day with a real plan.

No dramatic exits.
No reckless decisions.
Just strategy, discipline, and mentorship.

If you’re ambitious but practical…
Hungry but calculated…
Driven but not delusional…

You’re my kind of woman. You don’t need a resignation letter. You need a blueprint.

If you’re ready to build BEFORE you leap…Comment or DM me “BUILD” and I’ll send you exactly how to start while keeping your 9–5.

No hype.
No pressure.
Just structure and strategy
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#CorporateToEntrepreneur
#SideHustleWomen
#MultipleStreamsOfIncome
#WomenBuildingWealth
#LevelUpSeason
Can we be honest for a second?

Most people aren’t out here trying to be millionaires overnight.

Most just want:

• A little breathing room
• An extra $1–3K a month
• To stop stressing every time a bill hits
• To take a trip without putting it on a credit card
• To not depend on one paycheck forever

That’s it.

I talk to so many women and men who are doing everything “right.”

Good jobs. Degrees. Promotions.

And still feel like one unexpected expense could throw everything off.

That’s just flat out exhausting, and At some point you have to ask yourself:

Do I just want more income… Or am I willing to build more income? There’s a difference.

This business I’m building, it isn’t about quitting your job. It’s not about becoming someone you’re not. It’s not about spamming your friends.

It’s about building a second stream - and doing so intentionally.

Slow.
Simple.
Sustainable.

No hype.
No pressure.

Just an option.

If you’ve been quietly thinking, “I need something more…”

Comment below or message me the word MORE!

Let’s talk, and plan out how we are going to create your extra breathing room! 💰
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#NewMonthEnergy
#LevelUpSeason
#WomenWithVision
#BuildInSilence
#GoalDrivenWomen
There’s something powerful about ending a month There’s something powerful about ending a month in peace.

No chaos.
No scrambling.
No desperation energy.

Just clarity. Gratitude. Lessons learned.

And then waking up to a brand new month with a clean slate and bigger vision.

That’s the shift.

Because the goal isn’t just to make money.
It’s to build consistency.
It’s to build discipline.
It’s to build a life that doesn’t feel rushed or reactive.

A peaceful month-end means:
✔️ systems are working
✔️ effort was consistent
✔️ growth is compounding
✔️ you’re not chasing… you’re building

If this month didn’t go how you wanted — good.

Now you know what to adjust.

New month.
New focus.
New income goals.
New discipline.

And if you’re serious about building something more intentional this month — I’m building too.

If you’re stepping into this new month with bigger goals and sharper focus…

Comment “RESET” below or DM me “LEVEL UP” and let’s talk strategy.

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The perfect start to any Saturday morning…..the The perfect start to any Saturday morning…..the 2026 Gravy Cup! 

So many amazing chefs and culinary professionals showcasing their best spin on traditional and non-traditional biscuits & gravy!! All of the proceeds benefit Boys & Girls Haven 👏🏽

And it was soooooo good seeing my girl @weballard.01 🫶🏽 Your biscuits & gravy were a hit!! 

Happy Saturday friends! Go do something fun today!
Some conversations don’t happen in rooms you’r Some conversations don’t happen in rooms you’re in…
and honestly, that’s your protection — not your problem.

Growth will expose things.
Success will shift relationships.
And elevation will make some people uncomfortable.

But one thing about me…
I’m too focused on purpose, peace, and building the life I prayed for to entertain distractions.

I don’t argue.
I don’t chase explanations.
I don’t shrink to make others comfortable.

I just keep building, keep glowing, and keep walking in rooms that were designed for me.

And if you’re in a season where you’re protecting your energy, leveling up, and choosing alignment over approval — I see you.

Because elevation requires boundaries. Always.

If you’re stepping into a new season and protecting your peace while building something bigger for your life…

✨ Drop a 💙 below
✨ Save this as a reminder
✨ And follow me for real, unfiltered conversations about growth, boundaries, business, and becoming HER
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#LevelUpSeason
#GrowthMindsetDaily
#WomenWithVision
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The biggest shift in my life didn’t start with m The biggest shift in my life didn’t start with money, opportunities, or even confidence…

It started with belief.

Belief that I could build more than what I saw in front of me.
Belief that corporate success and personal freedom didn’t have to compete.
Belief that ordinary women can create extraordinary lives when they stop waiting and start trusting themselves.

And here’s what I know for sure:

Your next level isn’t blocked by your circumstances — it’s unlocked by what you believe is possible for you.

So if you’ve been feeling the pull for more…
more growth
more confidence
more income streams
more purpose

just know this might be your sign.

✨ You don’t need permission.
✨ You don’t need perfection.
✨ You just need belief + action.

If this spoke to you, drop a 💙 in the comments or send me a DM that says “MORE” and I’ll connect with you personally.

Let’s build something powerful together.
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#BelieveBigger
#WomenWhoBuild
#MindsetShift
#CorporateToEntrepreneur
#LevelUpSeason
Sunday self-care isn’t just bubble baths and can Sunday self-care isn’t just bubble baths and candles over here… it’s a consistent routine.

Because if you’ve been watching my hair glow up, just know it didn’t happen by accident.

It came from:
✔️ nourishing my body from the inside FIRST
✔️ building a consistent scalp AND hair strand routine
✔️ prioritizing hydration + strengthening from root to tip
✔️ staying committed even when results weren’t immediate

And THIS is the routine that has my hair growing longer, thicker, and shinier than it’s been in years.

The biggest lesson?
Healthy hair isn’t one product — it’s a system and routine.

If you’re tired of breakage, thinning, dryness, or slow growth… this is your reminder that your glow up is possible too.

Comment “HAIR” and I’ll personally send you my full inside-out hair growth lineup + how to use it step-by-step.

⚡ And I’m gifting $50 OFF to the next FIVE (5) women ready to start their glow up with me. DON’T WAIT!
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#hairgrowthjourney
#healthyhairroutine
#hairglowup
#selfcareforwomen
#womenwhoglow
Ok soooo listen… Ive been a little MIA the last Ok soooo listen… Ive been a little MIA the last couple or days because, whatever nasty gunk has been going around, tried to take your girl OUT 😩🤧 So resting, hydrating, and laying low was the only thing on my agenda.

But THIS morning? I woke up to something that instantly made me smile…

My DMs and comments FULL of questions about my hair glow up 👀✨

And I get it — because this isn’t just length.
It’s thickness. It’s shine. It’s strength. It’s HEALTH.

What most people don’t realize is my hair journey didn’t start with hair goals…
it started with focusing on my overall wellness from the inside out.

And the glow up?
It followed. 💁🏽‍♀️

So if you’ve been watching, wondering, screenshotting, or quietly curious… this is your sign.

✨ I’m opening the door for a FEW people ready to start their wellness journey with me
✨ I’m offering $50 OFF to get started TODAY
✨ And you’ll get my personal guidance, routine, and support along the way

Because results don’t come from watching… they come from starting.

If you’re ready for stronger, longer, thicker hair - better energy, and a real wellness routine that fits real life — let’s go.

📩 Comment “GLOW” or message me and I’ll send you the details + your $50 savings.

Your glow up could be one decision away. 💙
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#HairGrowthJourney
#WellnessGlowUp
#HealthyHairJourney
#WomenSupportingWomen
#ConfidenceFromWithin
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📈 Helping women monetize social media
💰 Build your brand. Get paid. ⬇️

Every time someone joins me in this business, I’ Every time someone joins me in this business, I’m reminded how many people are just sitting on the sidelines thinking about it…

Researching it.
Watching it.
Talking themselves in and out of it.

Meanwhile someone else just said yes and said “I’ll figure it out along the way, I can’t afford to wait any longer!”

This could absolutely be you. But some of you are still second guessing yourself.

If you’ve been saying you want extra income, more flexibility, or something of your own, this is your sign to stop watching from the sidelines.

Send me a message that says MORE and I’ll share exactly how this works and what it looks like to get started. (BONUS: Get started for $100 off TODAY ONLY)

Let’s build something real. 🦋
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#sidehustle
#extraincome
#onlinebusiness
#entrepreneurmindset
One thing I’ve learned in every room I’ve walk One thing I’ve learned in every room I’ve walked into — corporate boardrooms, business events, and entrepreneurial spaces — is this:

Secure women don’t compete with each other.

They collaborate.
They support.
They remind other women that there’s room at the table.

Because real power isn’t about being the only woman in the room, or the only one winning.

It’s about making sure the door stays open for the next one walking in.

The women I respect the most are the ones who celebrate other women’s wins, share opportunities, and create environments where we all grow.

That’s the kind of energy I choose to move with.

And if you’re building your career, your confidence, or even a business of your own — find women who clap when you win……..Those are your people.

If you believe women should build together instead of compete, drop a 💙 in the comments.

And if you’re a woman who’s focused on growth, leadership, multiple income streams, and lifting others along the way — follow me and let’s chat! 
You’re in the right room.
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#WomenSupportingWomen
#WomenWithVision
#WomenInLeadership
#LevelUpSeason
#BuildTogether
You don’t have to quit your 9–5 to build somet You don’t have to quit your 9–5 to build something bigger.

Let me say that again for the woman in the back:

You do NOT have to blow up your stability to create additional income.

I’m building while employed.
I’m earning while leading.
I’m growing while managing a full calendar.

The difference?

I stopped waiting for the “perfect time.”
I stopped overthinking.
I started using 1–2 focused hours a day with a real plan.

No dramatic exits.
No reckless decisions.
Just strategy, discipline, and mentorship.

If you’re ambitious but practical…
Hungry but calculated…
Driven but not delusional…

You’re my kind of woman. You don’t need a resignation letter. You need a blueprint.

If you’re ready to build BEFORE you leap…Comment or DM me “BUILD” and I’ll send you exactly how to start while keeping your 9–5.

No hype.
No pressure.
Just structure and strategy
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#CorporateToEntrepreneur
#SideHustleWomen
#MultipleStreamsOfIncome
#WomenBuildingWealth
#LevelUpSeason
Can we be honest for a second?

Most people aren’t out here trying to be millionaires overnight.

Most just want:

• A little breathing room
• An extra $1–3K a month
• To stop stressing every time a bill hits
• To take a trip without putting it on a credit card
• To not depend on one paycheck forever

That’s it.

I talk to so many women and men who are doing everything “right.”

Good jobs. Degrees. Promotions.

And still feel like one unexpected expense could throw everything off.

That’s just flat out exhausting, and At some point you have to ask yourself:

Do I just want more income… Or am I willing to build more income? There’s a difference.

This business I’m building, it isn’t about quitting your job. It’s not about becoming someone you’re not. It’s not about spamming your friends.

It’s about building a second stream - and doing so intentionally.

Slow.
Simple.
Sustainable.

No hype.
No pressure.

Just an option.

If you’ve been quietly thinking, “I need something more…”

Comment below or message me the word MORE!

Let’s talk, and plan out how we are going to create your extra breathing room! 💰
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#NewMonthEnergy
#LevelUpSeason
#WomenWithVision
#BuildInSilence
#GoalDrivenWomen
There’s something powerful about ending a month There’s something powerful about ending a month in peace.

No chaos.
No scrambling.
No desperation energy.

Just clarity. Gratitude. Lessons learned.

And then waking up to a brand new month with a clean slate and bigger vision.

That’s the shift.

Because the goal isn’t just to make money.
It’s to build consistency.
It’s to build discipline.
It’s to build a life that doesn’t feel rushed or reactive.

A peaceful month-end means:
✔️ systems are working
✔️ effort was consistent
✔️ growth is compounding
✔️ you’re not chasing… you’re building

If this month didn’t go how you wanted — good.

Now you know what to adjust.

New month.
New focus.
New income goals.
New discipline.

And if you’re serious about building something more intentional this month — I’m building too.

If you’re stepping into this new month with bigger goals and sharper focus…

Comment “RESET” below or DM me “LEVEL UP” and let’s talk strategy.

No more drifting. We’re moving with intention.
And I’m build g 5 NEW teams this month, and I would love for you to be one of them! 💙
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#LevelUpSeason
#WomenWithVision
#GoalGetterMindset
#BuildWithPurpose
The perfect start to any Saturday morning…..the The perfect start to any Saturday morning…..the 2026 Gravy Cup! 

So many amazing chefs and culinary professionals showcasing their best spin on traditional and non-traditional biscuits & gravy!! All of the proceeds benefit Boys & Girls Haven 👏🏽

And it was soooooo good seeing my girl @weballard.01 🫶🏽 Your biscuits & gravy were a hit!! 

Happy Saturday friends! Go do something fun today!
Some conversations don’t happen in rooms you’r Some conversations don’t happen in rooms you’re in…
and honestly, that’s your protection — not your problem.

Growth will expose things.
Success will shift relationships.
And elevation will make some people uncomfortable.

But one thing about me…
I’m too focused on purpose, peace, and building the life I prayed for to entertain distractions.

I don’t argue.
I don’t chase explanations.
I don’t shrink to make others comfortable.

I just keep building, keep glowing, and keep walking in rooms that were designed for me.

And if you’re in a season where you’re protecting your energy, leveling up, and choosing alignment over approval — I see you.

Because elevation requires boundaries. Always.

If you’re stepping into a new season and protecting your peace while building something bigger for your life…

✨ Drop a 💙 below
✨ Save this as a reminder
✨ And follow me for real, unfiltered conversations about growth, boundaries, business, and becoming HER
.
.
.
.
.
#ProtectYourPeace
#LevelUpSeason
#GrowthMindsetDaily
#WomenWithVision
#SoftLifeHardWork
The biggest shift in my life didn’t start with m The biggest shift in my life didn’t start with money, opportunities, or even confidence…

It started with belief.

Belief that I could build more than what I saw in front of me.
Belief that corporate success and personal freedom didn’t have to compete.
Belief that ordinary women can create extraordinary lives when they stop waiting and start trusting themselves.

And here’s what I know for sure:

Your next level isn’t blocked by your circumstances — it’s unlocked by what you believe is possible for you.

So if you’ve been feeling the pull for more…
more growth
more confidence
more income streams
more purpose

just know this might be your sign.

✨ You don’t need permission.
✨ You don’t need perfection.
✨ You just need belief + action.

If this spoke to you, drop a 💙 in the comments or send me a DM that says “MORE” and I’ll connect with you personally.

Let’s build something powerful together.
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.
.
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.
#BelieveBigger
#WomenWhoBuild
#MindsetShift
#CorporateToEntrepreneur
#LevelUpSeason
Sunday self-care isn’t just bubble baths and can Sunday self-care isn’t just bubble baths and candles over here… it’s a consistent routine.

Because if you’ve been watching my hair glow up, just know it didn’t happen by accident.

It came from:
✔️ nourishing my body from the inside FIRST
✔️ building a consistent scalp AND hair strand routine
✔️ prioritizing hydration + strengthening from root to tip
✔️ staying committed even when results weren’t immediate

And THIS is the routine that has my hair growing longer, thicker, and shinier than it’s been in years.

The biggest lesson?
Healthy hair isn’t one product — it’s a system and routine.

If you’re tired of breakage, thinning, dryness, or slow growth… this is your reminder that your glow up is possible too.

Comment “HAIR” and I’ll personally send you my full inside-out hair growth lineup + how to use it step-by-step.

⚡ And I’m gifting $50 OFF to the next FIVE (5) women ready to start their glow up with me. DON’T WAIT!
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#hairgrowthjourney
#healthyhairroutine
#hairglowup
#selfcareforwomen
#womenwhoglow
Ok soooo listen… Ive been a little MIA the last Ok soooo listen… Ive been a little MIA the last couple or days because, whatever nasty gunk has been going around, tried to take your girl OUT 😩🤧 So resting, hydrating, and laying low was the only thing on my agenda.

But THIS morning? I woke up to something that instantly made me smile…

My DMs and comments FULL of questions about my hair glow up 👀✨

And I get it — because this isn’t just length.
It’s thickness. It’s shine. It’s strength. It’s HEALTH.

What most people don’t realize is my hair journey didn’t start with hair goals…
it started with focusing on my overall wellness from the inside out.

And the glow up?
It followed. 💁🏽‍♀️

So if you’ve been watching, wondering, screenshotting, or quietly curious… this is your sign.

✨ I’m opening the door for a FEW people ready to start their wellness journey with me
✨ I’m offering $50 OFF to get started TODAY
✨ And you’ll get my personal guidance, routine, and support along the way

Because results don’t come from watching… they come from starting.

If you’re ready for stronger, longer, thicker hair - better energy, and a real wellness routine that fits real life — let’s go.

📩 Comment “GLOW” or message me and I’ll send you the details + your $50 savings.

Your glow up could be one decision away. 💙
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#HairGrowthJourney
#WellnessGlowUp
#HealthyHairJourney
#WomenSupportingWomen
#ConfidenceFromWithin
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