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Get your mind right before you walk into that office sis. Because you are not just an employee. You are a whole entrepreneur who happens to still have a day job — and there is a difference.

The corporate world needs us present. But our dreams need us building. And the beautiful thing? We’re doing both. So turn this up on the way in. Fix your crown in the rearview. Walk through those doors like the main character you absolutely are — because after hours? We’re building something that’s going to make the 9-to-5 optional.

Love yourself loud sis. In the parking lot. In the boardroom. And especially when you’re building a life nobody handed you.

Drop 💛 if you’re a corporate girlie who’s also out here building something on the side — I see you and I am you. Let’s connect.
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Where in the world is the time going 🤯😭 My Where in the world is the time going 🤯😭

My sweet JoJo is 10 today, and I am unwell! 

To the one that keeps us all on our toes, HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY JOJO! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
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#hbd #happybirthday #birthdayboy #nephew
They’re still talking about the old me. That’s They’re still talking about the old me. That’s Cute.
She was just the trailer. 🖤
and we can’t let the day go by without wishing t and we can’t let the day go by without wishing the biggest HAPPY BIRTHDAY to our Maddox (aka MADDOG)!!!! 

I can’t believe you’re already 15! 🤯 😭

Hope you have the best day ever!! We will be celebrating soon!!!! #JCole 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!🎁🎉🎈 Love you!!
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Getting to shower these two yesterday was so extre Getting to shower these two yesterday was so extremely special to me! Baby Malakai will be here before we know it, and that baby is already so loved (and spoiled 😂). 

More pics coming soon! 😉
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#babyshower #momtobe #newparents #thenextchapter
Real talk, from me to you: doing what’s right fo Real talk, from me to you: doing what’s right for your life will sometimes mean standing in a room full of people — completely alone. Do it anyway.

I know what it feels like to shrink. To keep a dream quiet because you already know how people are going to react. To say yes to everyone else and nothing to yourself. I lived there for a long time.

When I started building my health and wellness business I wasn’t met with applause. I was met with doubt, silence, and the kind of ‘support’ that comes with a side of skepticism. I almost let that be the reason I stopped.

But I kept going. And that business people quietly doubted? It pays me every single week. It built me a community of people who chose themselves too — who were standing alone in their own rooms before they found this. Now we stand together.

People pleasing is self-abandonment with a smile. And you have been abandoning yourself long enough.
You don’t need permission. You just need to decide that you matter enough to try.

Drop ALONE in my comments or DM me — I took the step nobody clapped for, and I’ll walk this road with you. 💙
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#chooseyourself #peoplepleaser #selfabandonment #realtalk #standalone
“Scared money don’t make money. Scared decisio “Scared money don’t make money. Scared decisions don’t make change.” And I say that as someone who used to let fear run everything — my finances, my choices, my future.

I spent so long waiting for the perfect moment to start something different. Waiting until I had more money. More time. More confidence. More certainty. And while I was waiting, nothing changed. The bills didn’t wait. The years didn’t wait. Life didn’t wait. and the weight didn’t magically fall off 😂😂😂

The thing that finally shifted me wasn’t a magic moment. It was a decision. A decision to stop letting fear be the loudest voice in the room and start betting on myself for once.

I found a health and wellness business that let me start exactly where I was — no experience, no huge platform, no perfect plan. Just a system that works, products that actually changed how I feel every single day, and a team of people who showed up for me the way I now show up for others.

The people on my team were scared too. They overthought it too. They had the same lists of reasons why it wasn’t the right time. The only difference is they jumped anyway — and now they’re hitting bonuses, building income, and feeling better than they have in years.

If fear has been making your decisions, this is your sign to take it back. You deserve to find out what happens when you finally bet on yourself.

Drop LEAP in the comments or slide into my DMs and let’s talk about what this could look like for your life. I took the leap. I’ll help you take yours. 💚
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Manifesting the day we get to scream ‘WE DID IT! Manifesting the day we get to scream ‘WE DID IT!’ because we never gave up. 🖤

This is what building together looks like. Two women who decided that the life they wanted wasn’t going to build itself — so they showed up, stayed consistent, and refused to quit on each other or themselves.

That’s what this business is at its core. It’s not just about the income, the bonuses, or the free products — although all of that is very real. It’s about having somebody in your corner who genuinely wants to see you win. A team that celebrates your first sale like it’s their own. People who answer the phone, share the knowledge, and remind you why you started when the days get hard.

We are building something here that goes beyond a paycheck. We’re building health — real, physical, feel-it-in-your-body health. We’re building financial freedom for families who have never had it. We’re building a legacy that our spouses, kids, nieces, nephews, etc get to watch us create in real time.

If you’ve been on the sidelines watching and something in you keeps saying ‘I want that’ — that feeling is not an accident. That’s your sign.

We are actively looking for NEW people to add to this team. People who are hungry, coachable, and ready to finally bet on themselves. You don’t need experience. You just need to be willing to show up.

Drop 🖤 in the comments or DM us the word TEAM and let’s have a real conversation about what this could look like for your life.
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Beauty & Fashion · August 22, 2017

The Longest Lasting Lipstick x LipSense + a GIVEAWAY!!!

Hey ya’ll! Chances are, if you’re reading this, you’ve heard of LipSense. If you’re like me, you might have friends selling it (holla to my friends who are selling LipSense as a side hustle and absolutely rocking it). You might have even seen bloggers paid to review LipSense, or bloggers who got free product in exchange for a review. Well if you are looking for a fluffy review that has nothing but amazing things to say about the product and not one single downside, well then you may want to exit now.  My best friend Hailey is a new distributor and I decided to support her new business by spending my hard earned coin and purchasing a complete lip kit to start my LipSense journey. So this review will be as real as it gets.  If you’re looking for real, then keep on reading!

Needless to say, LipSense is everywhere. Like a lot of people, I was highly curious. I wanted to see if the claims were true. So I went ahead and decided to try the product for myself! I went ahead and purchased two colors, the gloss, and the Oops Remover. AGAIN, Nobody is paying me a single cent or giving me anything in exchange for this post. These are just my personal thoughts and experiences. So here we go!

 

What the heck is LipSense?
LipSense is a liquid lipstick, and the biggest new MLM phenomenon. The main selling points that distinguish it from other lipsticks is that it’s highly durable – lasting anywhere between 4-18 hours and staying on through eating, drinking, kissing, exercising, swimming, etc.  The standard prices are $25 for each color, plus you need a tube of $20 gloss, and they also have a $10 lipstick remover. All of the three products I just mentioned is what you will get in your initial starter kit. (retail price $55)

Benefits of LipSense
  • Long lasting lipstick color that can last up to 18 hours (last times vary per person)
  • Reconditions your lips by exfoliation
  • Waterproof
  • Smudge proof
  • Budge proof
  • Vegan
  • GMO free
  • Wax free
  • Lead free
  • Gluten free
Can you really wear it all day and it not come off?
Yup. When I drink something, there’s no lipstick residue on my cup. The only residue I find is from the gloss, not the actual lip color. When I spend hours outside in the hot sun, my LipSense isn’t smeared or runny.
All those videos of your LipSense friends running their fingers across their lips and showing the camera that nothing came off are real my friends. Sometimes, if you’ve just barely put on the gloss, it comes off a little, but the gloss is mostly shea butter, so that’s understandable.
Overall, I’ve been highly impressed with the staying power of LipSense

 

DOES IT REALLY LAST 18 HOURS?
Umm….that’s still questionable and here is why. For me personally, the longest I have had it on is about 10 full hours. Mainly that is because I can’t stand to have makeup on any longer than that, but also that’s usually when the look of “wear” starts to settle in on most of my products, including the lips. Most distributors will even be very honest with you and tell you up front that for it last up to 18 hours is a bit of a stretch. But again, as I mentioned above, wear time varies per person.  But lets all think about it for a minute…….why in the world would you even want to have lipstick on for that long? haha!  Mine typically starts to wear off at my waterline first (your waterline is where the inside of your mouth meets your lips). But the waterline is also the hardest place to retain color pigment.
But the thing is – I very rarely need more than 8-9 hours of coverage in a row. Count how many hours you’d like your makeup to stay on perfectly for. Chances are it’s not more than 8-9. And I sincerely hope you don’t require camera-ready lipstick for 18 hours anyways. If you do need more than the typical 8-9 hours, you can add one more quick layer at hour 9 and be good for another few hours.
Technically the LipSense claim is that it lasts up to 18 hours, so they’re right. I’m sure if you never talked or ate or moved that day, it would stay on perfectly for 18 hours. Personally mine lasts 10 hours perfectly, but the bottom line is this: Yes, it really does last all day long. It’s nice to put it on in the morning and not have to worry about it for the rest of the day until I get home from work and remove all of my make-up.
DOES IT WRECK YOUR LIPS?
This was my biggest concern. A lot of lipsticks leave my lips feeling chapped and rough. I thought if there was a lipstick that’s so powerful it holds color all day long it MUST wreak havoc on your lips. For me, I wouldn’t say its totally drying on my lips while wearing it, but once I remove, I definitely have to use some type of lip scrub or exfoliate followed by a lip conditioner to moisturize my lips.  (If you’re looking for a good lip conditioner or moisturizer, check out my Beautycounter Peppermint Lip Conditioner HERE)

 

IS IT REALLY ONE OF A KIND?
No. This is where marketing from SeneGence comes in.  There are a lot of liquid lipsticks on the market. A lot of them last a really long time. A lot of them are smudge proof and kiss proof and everything proof. A lot of them are extremely moisturizing. Almost all of them cost less than LipSense.  HOWEVER, I do think LipSense has a larger color selection than most, as well as many highly universal shades. This is one company that I think focuses on formulating shades that are flattering to all skintones, and as a brown girl, this is very refreshing. Also, with LipSense, you can buy one color and wear it matte or glossy without having to purchase two separate colors. But with most other companies, they do not even make the same two shades in both a gloss and matte. You usually are stuck with trying to decide between another color. With LipSense, they offer both a gloss and a matte sealant for your colors. The choice is yours! 🙂

 

DRUM ROLL: Is LipSense worth the price tag?
It depends. The product is great, there is no denying that. It’s long-lasting, it’s high quality, it’s moisturizing while wearing. The colors are varied and fun. I like that there are a LOT of pictures available of different people wearing any given color, so you can see how it might look on your skin tone. You can also get samples from your distributor to see how certain colors look on you.  If you are someone who just likes to wear lipstick or a splash of color on your lips once every “eclipse” (haha get it……given what happened yesterday! I know, super corny but I couldn’t resist), then LipSense or any quality lipstick may not be for you given the return on investment.  But if you are a make-up lover like me, you like wearing a different shade of lip color depending on what you’re wearing; Or even if you find a staple color that you absolutely love and will wear it every day, then I say HECK YEAH! What are you waiting for?  Contact my girl Hailey TODAY and order you some LipSense!
Oh, and a side note: I personally do not think the lipstick remover is necessary. Luckily I’ve had some really awesome LipSense distributor friends be very honest about this fact, and even tell me about a Neutrogena bar that does the same thing. If you want to try out LipSense, maybe get a bold color, a more subtle color, and a gloss to start.
Best of all – I personally like LipSense because buying it means supporting people I care about. Lots of my friends selling LipSense are moms selling lipstick as a side hustle, and I am all about women supporting women in their personal and business endeavors. These women have been supporting my blog(s) for years, so I’m happy to support them – and get awesome lipstick while I’m at it.

Ready to Shop? Contact Hailey Haskins at (hailey.haskins3@gmail.com)

 

GIVEAWAY DETAILS

Today LipSense is launching their new ShadowSense line.  Thats right, its eye shadow that claims to be smudge proof, waterproof, and lasts all day long.  I just ordered three to try out myself, and I can’t wait.  So for one one my lucky readers, I will be giving one away.  The winner will be able to pick the color of their choice (18 colors to choose from) and I will get it shipped out to you directly.  See below details to enter. The winner will be drawn and announced on Sunday, August 27th at 8pm EST.  Good Luck!

 

CLICK THE LINK BELOW TO ENTER!!!!!

 

ShadowSense Giveaway! Win a FREE shadow color of your choice!

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  1. Shana says

    August 22, 2017 at 6:55 pm

    I love my lipsense. It tooks oem experimenting to get a perfect color, but I love it.

    Reply
  2. DBisch says

    August 22, 2017 at 7:25 pm

    I’ve only tried lipsense twice and found it only lasts about 5 hours. That means reapply at lunch, which isn’t terrible, but I was hoping for more. Giving it another go trying some tips for wear.

    Reply
    • Candace | The Big Blue Debutante says

      August 24, 2017 at 12:30 pm

      Yes, wear times definitely vary on people! What colors did you try? I initially tried the nude and beige champagne with my starter kit

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  3. Brittany Cheatham says

    August 22, 2017 at 8:45 pm

    Yay Make-up! Im anxious to see how Shadowsense works out! Be sure to let me know when you are wearing it! : )

    Reply
    • Candace | The Big Blue Debutante says

      August 24, 2017 at 12:31 pm

      ok course!!! you’ll be the first to know! 🙂

      Reply
  4. melly rodriguez says

    August 23, 2017 at 1:00 pm

    very cool

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  5. Jeanne Coulombe says

    August 25, 2017 at 8:36 am

    Awesome it’s hard to find good waterproof makeup.

    Reply
    • Candace | The Big Blue Debutante says

      August 25, 2017 at 10:29 am

      It sure is! I’ll pay a little more for make-up that has staying power! Who wants to be reapplying all day!

      Thanks for stopping by!

      Reply
  6. poimatcha says

    August 26, 2017 at 1:22 am

    wow would be interested to try this!

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  7. Pierre-Yves Nechet says

    August 26, 2017 at 11:52 am

    My wife loves that ! Good tips !

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  8. April Bentley says

    August 26, 2017 at 3:11 pm

    Such a great new product!

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  9. Dynal Roberson says

    August 26, 2017 at 6:21 pm

    Great colors, so hard to choose just one!

    Reply

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Get your mind right before you walk into that office sis. Because you are not just an employee. You are a whole entrepreneur who happens to still have a day job — and there is a difference.

The corporate world needs us present. But our dreams need us building. And the beautiful thing? We’re doing both. So turn this up on the way in. Fix your crown in the rearview. Walk through those doors like the main character you absolutely are — because after hours? We’re building something that’s going to make the 9-to-5 optional.

Love yourself loud sis. In the parking lot. In the boardroom. And especially when you’re building a life nobody handed you.

Drop 💛 if you’re a corporate girlie who’s also out here building something on the side — I see you and I am you. Let’s connect.
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#corporategirlie #9to5life #ilovemyloud #workfromhome #corporateentrepreneur
Where in the world is the time going 🤯😭 My Where in the world is the time going 🤯😭

My sweet JoJo is 10 today, and I am unwell! 

To the one that keeps us all on our toes, HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY JOJO! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
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#hbd #happybirthday #birthdayboy #nephew
They’re still talking about the old me. That’s They’re still talking about the old me. That’s Cute.
She was just the trailer. 🖤
and we can’t let the day go by without wishing t and we can’t let the day go by without wishing the biggest HAPPY BIRTHDAY to our Maddox (aka MADDOG)!!!! 

I can’t believe you’re already 15! 🤯 😭

Hope you have the best day ever!! We will be celebrating soon!!!! #JCole 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!🎁🎉🎈 Love you!!
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#happybirthday #nephew #hbd
Getting to shower these two yesterday was so extre Getting to shower these two yesterday was so extremely special to me! Baby Malakai will be here before we know it, and that baby is already so loved (and spoiled 😂). 

More pics coming soon! 😉
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#babyshower #momtobe #newparents #thenextchapter
Real talk, from me to you: doing what’s right fo Real talk, from me to you: doing what’s right for your life will sometimes mean standing in a room full of people — completely alone. Do it anyway.

I know what it feels like to shrink. To keep a dream quiet because you already know how people are going to react. To say yes to everyone else and nothing to yourself. I lived there for a long time.

When I started building my health and wellness business I wasn’t met with applause. I was met with doubt, silence, and the kind of ‘support’ that comes with a side of skepticism. I almost let that be the reason I stopped.

But I kept going. And that business people quietly doubted? It pays me every single week. It built me a community of people who chose themselves too — who were standing alone in their own rooms before they found this. Now we stand together.

People pleasing is self-abandonment with a smile. And you have been abandoning yourself long enough.
You don’t need permission. You just need to decide that you matter enough to try.

Drop ALONE in my comments or DM me — I took the step nobody clapped for, and I’ll walk this road with you. 💙
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#chooseyourself #peoplepleaser #selfabandonment #realtalk #standalone
“Scared money don’t make money. Scared decisio “Scared money don’t make money. Scared decisions don’t make change.” And I say that as someone who used to let fear run everything — my finances, my choices, my future.

I spent so long waiting for the perfect moment to start something different. Waiting until I had more money. More time. More confidence. More certainty. And while I was waiting, nothing changed. The bills didn’t wait. The years didn’t wait. Life didn’t wait. and the weight didn’t magically fall off 😂😂😂

The thing that finally shifted me wasn’t a magic moment. It was a decision. A decision to stop letting fear be the loudest voice in the room and start betting on myself for once.

I found a health and wellness business that let me start exactly where I was — no experience, no huge platform, no perfect plan. Just a system that works, products that actually changed how I feel every single day, and a team of people who showed up for me the way I now show up for others.

The people on my team were scared too. They overthought it too. They had the same lists of reasons why it wasn’t the right time. The only difference is they jumped anyway — and now they’re hitting bonuses, building income, and feeling better than they have in years.

If fear has been making your decisions, this is your sign to take it back. You deserve to find out what happens when you finally bet on yourself.

Drop LEAP in the comments or slide into my DMs and let’s talk about what this could look like for your life. I took the leap. I’ll help you take yours. 💚
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#taketheleap #mindsetshift #womeninbusiness #financialfreedom #workfromhome
Manifesting the day we get to scream ‘WE DID IT! Manifesting the day we get to scream ‘WE DID IT!’ because we never gave up. 🖤

This is what building together looks like. Two women who decided that the life they wanted wasn’t going to build itself — so they showed up, stayed consistent, and refused to quit on each other or themselves.

That’s what this business is at its core. It’s not just about the income, the bonuses, or the free products — although all of that is very real. It’s about having somebody in your corner who genuinely wants to see you win. A team that celebrates your first sale like it’s their own. People who answer the phone, share the knowledge, and remind you why you started when the days get hard.

We are building something here that goes beyond a paycheck. We’re building health — real, physical, feel-it-in-your-body health. We’re building financial freedom for families who have never had it. We’re building a legacy that our spouses, kids, nieces, nephews, etc get to watch us create in real time.

If you’ve been on the sidelines watching and something in you keeps saying ‘I want that’ — that feeling is not an accident. That’s your sign.

We are actively looking for NEW people to add to this team. People who are hungry, coachable, and ready to finally bet on themselves. You don’t need experience. You just need to be willing to show up.

Drop 🖤 in the comments or DM us the word TEAM and let’s have a real conversation about what this could look like for your life.
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Happy Sunday Friends! It’s #SampleSunday I’m s Happy Sunday Friends! It’s #SampleSunday I’m sharing what the Thrive Experience is and how it’s changed my life over the last five and a half years. I talk about a three-step system designed to boost energy, mental clarity, gut health, and overall wellness.

I’m offering TEN lucky followers a free three-day mini experience sample pack, and I encourage you to comment SAMPLE if you’re interested in trying it and experiencing the difference for yourself.#.
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ATTN CORPORATE GIRLIES — this is our new anthem ATTN CORPORATE GIRLIES — this is our new anthem and I will not be taking questions. 👏🏽

Get your mind right before you walk into that office sis. Because you are not just an employee. You are a whole entrepreneur who happens to still have a day job — and there is a difference.

The corporate world needs us present. But our dreams need us building. And the beautiful thing? We’re doing both. So turn this up on the way in. Fix your crown in the rearview. Walk through those doors like the main character you absolutely are — because after hours? We’re building something that’s going to make the 9-to-5 optional.

Love yourself loud sis. In the parking lot. In the boardroom. And especially when you’re building a life nobody handed you.

Drop 💛 if you’re a corporate girlie who’s also out here building something on the side — I see you and I am you. Let’s connect.
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Where in the world is the time going 🤯😭 My Where in the world is the time going 🤯😭

My sweet JoJo is 10 today, and I am unwell! 

To the one that keeps us all on our toes, HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY JOJO! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
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#hbd #happybirthday #birthdayboy #nephew
They’re still talking about the old me. That’s They’re still talking about the old me. That’s Cute.
She was just the trailer. 🖤
and we can’t let the day go by without wishing t and we can’t let the day go by without wishing the biggest HAPPY BIRTHDAY to our Maddox (aka MADDOG)!!!! 

I can’t believe you’re already 15! 🤯 😭

Hope you have the best day ever!! We will be celebrating soon!!!! #JCole 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!🎁🎉🎈 Love you!!
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#happybirthday #nephew #hbd
Getting to shower these two yesterday was so extre Getting to shower these two yesterday was so extremely special to me! Baby Malakai will be here before we know it, and that baby is already so loved (and spoiled 😂). 

More pics coming soon! 😉
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#babyshower #momtobe #newparents #thenextchapter
Real talk, from me to you: doing what’s right fo Real talk, from me to you: doing what’s right for your life will sometimes mean standing in a room full of people — completely alone. Do it anyway.

I know what it feels like to shrink. To keep a dream quiet because you already know how people are going to react. To say yes to everyone else and nothing to yourself. I lived there for a long time.

When I started building my health and wellness business I wasn’t met with applause. I was met with doubt, silence, and the kind of ‘support’ that comes with a side of skepticism. I almost let that be the reason I stopped.

But I kept going. And that business people quietly doubted? It pays me every single week. It built me a community of people who chose themselves too — who were standing alone in their own rooms before they found this. Now we stand together.

People pleasing is self-abandonment with a smile. And you have been abandoning yourself long enough.
You don’t need permission. You just need to decide that you matter enough to try.

Drop ALONE in my comments or DM me — I took the step nobody clapped for, and I’ll walk this road with you. 💙
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#chooseyourself #peoplepleaser #selfabandonment #realtalk #standalone
“Scared money don’t make money. Scared decisio “Scared money don’t make money. Scared decisions don’t make change.” And I say that as someone who used to let fear run everything — my finances, my choices, my future.

I spent so long waiting for the perfect moment to start something different. Waiting until I had more money. More time. More confidence. More certainty. And while I was waiting, nothing changed. The bills didn’t wait. The years didn’t wait. Life didn’t wait. and the weight didn’t magically fall off 😂😂😂

The thing that finally shifted me wasn’t a magic moment. It was a decision. A decision to stop letting fear be the loudest voice in the room and start betting on myself for once.

I found a health and wellness business that let me start exactly where I was — no experience, no huge platform, no perfect plan. Just a system that works, products that actually changed how I feel every single day, and a team of people who showed up for me the way I now show up for others.

The people on my team were scared too. They overthought it too. They had the same lists of reasons why it wasn’t the right time. The only difference is they jumped anyway — and now they’re hitting bonuses, building income, and feeling better than they have in years.

If fear has been making your decisions, this is your sign to take it back. You deserve to find out what happens when you finally bet on yourself.

Drop LEAP in the comments or slide into my DMs and let’s talk about what this could look like for your life. I took the leap. I’ll help you take yours. 💚
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#taketheleap #mindsetshift #womeninbusiness #financialfreedom #workfromhome
Manifesting the day we get to scream ‘WE DID IT! Manifesting the day we get to scream ‘WE DID IT!’ because we never gave up. 🖤

This is what building together looks like. Two women who decided that the life they wanted wasn’t going to build itself — so they showed up, stayed consistent, and refused to quit on each other or themselves.

That’s what this business is at its core. It’s not just about the income, the bonuses, or the free products — although all of that is very real. It’s about having somebody in your corner who genuinely wants to see you win. A team that celebrates your first sale like it’s their own. People who answer the phone, share the knowledge, and remind you why you started when the days get hard.

We are building something here that goes beyond a paycheck. We’re building health — real, physical, feel-it-in-your-body health. We’re building financial freedom for families who have never had it. We’re building a legacy that our spouses, kids, nieces, nephews, etc get to watch us create in real time.

If you’ve been on the sidelines watching and something in you keeps saying ‘I want that’ — that feeling is not an accident. That’s your sign.

We are actively looking for NEW people to add to this team. People who are hungry, coachable, and ready to finally bet on themselves. You don’t need experience. You just need to be willing to show up.

Drop 🖤 in the comments or DM us the word TEAM and let’s have a real conversation about what this could look like for your life.
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Happy Sunday Friends! It’s #SampleSunday I’m s Happy Sunday Friends! It’s #SampleSunday I’m sharing what the Thrive Experience is and how it’s changed my life over the last five and a half years. I talk about a three-step system designed to boost energy, mental clarity, gut health, and overall wellness.

I’m offering TEN lucky followers a free three-day mini experience sample pack, and I encourage you to comment SAMPLE if you’re interested in trying it and experiencing the difference for yourself.#.
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